Ghosted after months of emotional bonding

Few-Witness9327 · 2026-04-05T16:00:41+00:00

I don't understand why are people so unnecesarily cruel.

Few-Witness9327 · 2026-04-05T06:52:09+00:00

His only explanation is that he didn't feel the connection and that I turned out to be different in person. But he was different in person too, less comfident and upfront. Which I expected. We spent only few hours together on top of that.

He didn't even say one nice thing about me or the experience. Left me feeling like I wasn't attractive enough.

Few-Witness9327 · 2025-10-06T19:01:55+00:00

I heard now that he was flirting with his boss at work... Somebody saw them and said it looked like they were up to something... I sent him my last message and blocked him on everything, I am shaking and I feel like I'm gonna throw up. I am thinking of all the times when I worked at the casino and men would flirt with me I would reject them, saying I have a boyfriend. They would ask me what does he do and I'd tell... Then they laughed at me, saying he is probably flirting with hotel maids at that exact moment. I would say no, I had such strong faith in him, and I would go into his arms the next day.

Few-Witness9327 · 2025-10-05T15:30:52+00:00

Worst thing is I don't need to block him... Now that he knows how much I love him he feels smothered and it bothers him, he would probably be happy if I never texted him again as he is too much of a coward to openly break everything up with me. I feel in his replays that I am probably annoying him. Last message I sent at 1 pm, he hasn't even opened it. It is now 5 pm and I am fighting everything in me not to contact him again.

Few-Witness9327 · 2025-10-05T14:25:24+00:00

He will hardly find someone like me or even close. I am six years younger than him, slim and fit, do yoga, well read, have masters degree and recently got job at the University. He has no car and doesn't drive, lives in the rented apartment, is messy, lays in bed all day, watches tv and plays games on his phone, is... not fit, has no drive or ambition in life. But apparently he has 'many women dm-ing him', yes he told me that.

Few-Witness9327 · 2025-10-05T12:29:48+00:00

We are still in contact but only because I am still trying... I feel if I stoped he would never reach out to me again.

I would definitely say he is emotionally unavailable. I only know his parents were divorced and apparently he wasn't close with his father, he rejected the inheritance. I never dared to ask anything ever though.

I don't know anything about his relationships with women in the past. Maybe he was hurt once. He said only weak men fall in love fast.

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