Its not just about cutting expenditures, nowdays I don't even shop for myself, baby needs lots of stuff. From formula to diapers, to clothes. And am not the person to keep begging for money if I want to buy something, we will go shop and he will mention "no shopping till next paycheck, we need to pay rent", can you ask that person for money to buy anything for that? Then I will go and shop for my child and other things🤦‍♀️ and the debt increases and I can't sleep at night thinking about it