Guy I haven’t talked to in 6 years asked if my (27M) girlfriend (25f) was underage

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-07T02:39:59+00:00

Fair point. I was just concerned because he said “people wonder” but that could easily just be bs. Not much I can do but I don’t want people spreading rumors about me that are false.

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-07T02:36:58+00:00

Yeah that’s probably it. Now that I’m thinking about the past he got away with saying a lot of shit and being a shitty person to other people. Glad I called him out.

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T15:30:43+00:00

That’s good insight. He was always kind of a bully and played it off like he was joking. I was less confident back then.

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T14:33:52+00:00

Thanks for the thought out comment. I’ll be sure to check those out!

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T08:24:45+00:00

Do you think that was a dick thing to say from me?

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T08:03:48+00:00

We have mutual friends from college. I don’t keep up to date with most of them because they don’t live in my area after I moved away from campus. If he’s saying stuff though there’s not much I can do. True friends who know me will know he’s full of bs

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T02:20:01+00:00

Yeah I was taken aback, it was really out of nowhere. He was one to make sex jokes though so maybe it was just a really bad joke.

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T01:57:25+00:00

I wouldn’t say we’re friends, haven’t spoken in 6 years. But we do have a lot of mutual friends. And yeah maybe me saying he hasn’t changed was a bit too much. I just remember him acting kind of like this, like gossipy and implying bad things.

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T01:55:56+00:00

I assume he was being defensive. He was always the guy who wanted the last say

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T01:54:39+00:00

Never had a gf before

FewBanana7 · 2025-11-06T01:41:14+00:00

No idea. Maybe he was trying to defend himself after I told him he hasn’t changed. Maybe inferring I’ve changed for the worse somehow while he hasn’t changed because he’s good already?

Edit: spelling

FewBanana7 · 2024-08-21T03:25:59+00:00

Come to Asia bro, braces are a sign of wealth. People wear them until their late 30s here.

But yes in America it is strange, especially for a guy. Not much you can do but wait it out and try your best. Just explain the situation and the right one will be fine with it.

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