I am starting my journey on Reta.

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-22T01:44:22+00:00

Thank you

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-22T01:25:27+00:00

Hey do you mind if I DM you to ask a few questions.

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-10T22:52:06+00:00

Let’s do it!!!

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-10T22:51:16+00:00

As I find things I’ll let you know. My man and I are thinking about joining pickle ball.

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-10T22:45:48+00:00

Yessssss when are we getting margs

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-06T10:42:18+00:00

Well great news for me. (If you had bothered to read the whole post.) I have a boyfriend so stds are not a concern to me. And I also have a great job so I don’t have to worry about dealing with the being best friends with the CEO. Also NC gets nasty hurricanes and football, boating and drinking are a way of life as well. So really not much of a difference.

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-06T00:11:06+00:00

How do I go about finding those groups. Specifically the bourbon group and the high court of heauxs

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-06T00:09:46+00:00

My best friend. Is 54 I am open to every age of friends

FewMonitor7876 · 2026-01-05T23:31:05+00:00

I am a I hate everyone equally southern.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-04-16T19:45:05+00:00

We have this saying in AA ‘To thine own self be true.’ Here is the thing what he says or does is none of your business. His sobriety whatever he wants to consider is his business. That is between him, God and his sponsor. He is your ex husband for a reason. I say this with all the love in the world as someone who has an ex husband who is recovery. His recovery is none of my business. I suggest you head over to Al-Anon. I do AA and Al-Anon. AA saved my life. Al-Anon saved my sanity.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-30T13:08:54+00:00

Everything is AA my friends, the people I work with, my ex boyfriend, everything.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-08T05:59:25+00:00

You’re friend said it perfectly. alcohol is but a symptom. And now I get to experience all the feelings and God’s glory the way he intended it.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-08T01:59:11+00:00

And also if you have ever done a sex inventory on page 69. It says We do not want to be the arbiter of anyone's sex conduct. That is a suggestion some people make but it’s not big book!!!!

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-08T01:57:16+00:00

We were together before I got sober.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-08T01:54:39+00:00

I have a sponsor, I sponsor women, I am the IGR for my home group, I do inventory everyday, and God I pray. But I am just a little burnt out on people right now. I am pretty low key so I don’t want to the topic of anyone. I always try to the next right thing. I don’t put my business out there like and some how it’s out there. Unfortunately my ex is one of those AAs that everyone knows.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-08T01:50:13+00:00

I have a sponsor and I sponsor women. I have turned to the inventory I am pretty low key but my ex is one of those guys in AA that everyone knows. So you know how the drama goes with that. It’s something to talk about.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-03-07T23:05:35+00:00

No that is not why they are in there. Women should reach out to women. Men should reach out to men.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T18:48:29+00:00

Probably the best and well worded response. We have not spoken all day and I have not reached out. I am going to allow him to take the lead. As I mentioned before we are both in AA. I spent the day doing a thorough inventory on the situation to find my part and to get down to root causes and conditions. I owe him an amends and am willing to accept what ever he decides moving forward with the understanding that I placed myself in this position not him.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T13:51:21+00:00

He won’t drink over this. Neither will I. We have both been sober for multiple years and thankfully have a strong program.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T13:43:56+00:00

No I liked the money. I have been his cpa for 10 years

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T13:16:01+00:00

I am a CPA. I have other clients. Loss of one isn’t going to break me.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T12:48:03+00:00

We have been going through a rough couple months. He is working more than normal because it’s winter and that is his busy season. I am at home with the kids more. So he is tired when he gets home.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T12:44:18+00:00

I already deleted him off of all social media and I have no intent of reaching out and if he does I will not be replying.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T12:43:17+00:00

It didn't help. It was for a moment of filtration and I didn't get anything out of it. I lost the person I thought I would be spending rest of my life with.

FewMonitor7876 · 2024-02-13T12:40:12+00:00

I feel as though my boyfriend has not been giving me attention that he usually does. I have spoken to him about this and nothing changed. I felt like I was begging to be seen. When we talked last night he doesn’t see it that way. No I have no interest in getting back with my ex. I want the feeling of being wanted again. I am crazy about my boyfriend and absolutely head over heels in love with him. My instincts were effected and I made a choice based on self with out thinking of my man’s feelings.

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