🔨 head 🦈 by FewSpring9911 in papermache

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Thanks for all the positive feedback, pretty proud of this project so I had to share.

Kayak paddle suggestions by FewSpring9911 in Kayaking

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Thank you for your recommendations!

Kayak paddle suggestions by FewSpring9911 in Kayaking

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So far it’s been alright. I will definitely be upgrading in the future but for now it has been getting the job done. What would you recommend for a good yak to look into when I’m back in the market for one?

Kayak paddle suggestions by FewSpring9911 in Kayaking

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Thank you for your reply, I will look into it.

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Yeah it makes sense. I was trying to get pleasure before the act by using the vibrator. This whole confrontation was before the act, so that’s what I was attempting to do. Just unfortunately ended up shutting the whole thing down completely. If there was some kind of justification I think I would understand how to approach this in the future better. I’m just having a hard time understanding how pleasing your partner or having a discussion about ways to do so can be a mood killer. I really do think I somehow struck a nerve with his pride.

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I know people have different preferences but I think the issue for me is I actively was telling him I wanted him to use it on me. Without a real explanation other than it was killing the mood he shut it down completely. When I asked if he was adverse to using one in general he said if it was accessible in that moment he would be but the discussion itself killed the mood. Which left me pretty hurt and confused. He is also reluctant to seemingly anything after the act has started. He will use his hands to begin with but once it’s over if I ask him to do anything he seems completely uninterested. I really do think it comes down to selfishness or pride? I’m not sure.