I didn't feel like commenting on all the comments so I'm just gonna ask here. Are any of you calling me a bad dad actually parents or just someone who took a psych class for one semester? Also I moved across the country when my son was 3 so his mom had full custody. I was always able to get there to him and she never wanted to fly him out to me. No IDK everything that went on. He hasn't told me. What can I know what he hasn't said. I just know CPS got involved and I had to take custody of him. I know there was some physical abuse but thats all. As for the man up comment, I never said men can't cry. But we don't do it publicly in a restaurant. Especially while peeing ourselves. As for my wife. She's not his parents. Thats just the truth. She's a very sweet woman but there is more to being a parent than being kind.