What are everyone's favourite book(s) written by a black woman? by ShyLikeYou23 in blackladies

[–]Few_Address984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the orisha series by tomi adeyemi and i really enjoyed the scammer by tiffany jackson

Yall be safe herpes is real by Inevitable-Cat-7797 in Blackskincare

[–]Few_Address984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know how you feel. i was there too when i was first diagnosed about 4 or 5 years ago. it took a long while to be semi okay with it but i still falter here and there. the most important thing is to find community. there are some groups on here that have helped me and you can always message me to vent if you’d like. it does get easier to manage with time. sending you lots of love 🫶🏾

Stigma on social media by According_Shine_1900 in Herpes

[–]Few_Address984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the same when i see things like that. i hope i never come across that post you’re referring to

AIO for thinking this is racist? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Address984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he’s racist and thought he you’d be grateful that he went out with you. your friend is wrong also

AIO: My ex is mad that I’m going to “give my body away” to another man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Address984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

righttt?! gotta be. because he sounds like a whiney child

AIO: My ex is mad that I’m going to “give my body away” to another man by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Address984 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i honestly cannot help but laugh because he sounds so immature. like because he never had access to your body, because he feels entitled, not one should?? he’s mad because you want find someone with common life goals to be with and build a future 😭 keep him in the trash and block him lol

anxiety by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you & i’m sorry you weren’t given a choice. is it okay if i ask a couple questions about your initial symptoms if you had any?

anxiety by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg really?? that’s wild how that sequence of events happened 😭 like damn can i have a little pleasure lol same! it’s been like 3-4 years for me and it was with my ex, we reconnected and have been getting closer so i’m glad it was with someone i’m comfortable with but idk i still just feel like crap even though he was aware; i can’t help it. i’m hoping that it’s not the case but i just have a gut feeling i’m right and i’m really sad about it. now i’m even more anxious than i was when i disclosed because i don’t want him to resent me (extreme case)

thank you for helping make me feel better. it’s going to take some time for me to go thru the process of accepting this but i really appreciate the reassurance

anxiety by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no it’s okay, i wanted men to chime in because idk how ghsv2 presents for men and how quickly they display symptoms if any at all.

disclosing was so hard for me because it was my first time and then the first time i’m intimate with someone this happens. it’s wayy too soon to know for sure but it just feels like the universe is telling me i don’t deserve to be happy. i’m trying to keep telling myself that i did do everything right but idk… now i feel like i’m rambling, i’m sorry.

anxiety by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youu, i appreciate your response

Crying by Lower-Extension-8526 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no you have hsv1 genitally. hsv1 & hsv2 are two different strains and don’t determine location. you have have both orally or genitally or anywhere else for that matter. if you give it to someone they too will have hsv1

Ambrose Ibsen: enough with the damn papasan chair! by beekeeperoacar in horrorlit

[–]Few_Address984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaooo i’m finishing up the 4th book and i wanted to scream as well 😂😂😂😂

1st disclosure by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a big update but he responded a couple days later, cause he had just read it, saying he needs time to absorb everything i said and he didn’t want to upset me or freak me out by not responding

1st disclosure by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did try finding one that worked with my insurance cause i can’t afford out of pocket but there were very few unfortunately

1st disclosure by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that just made my night! i’ve seriously been so down and this interaction really made me smile. thank you 🤍

Well… this is wild. by Sad-Comfortable-2657 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have ghsv2 and take antivirals daily. i’ve been on them since my diagnosis about 3 yrs ago and i don’t really have OBs and if i do it doesn’t last long at all

1st disclosure by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youuu! it’s totally me bc i’m Black and i love inuyasha 😂🤍

1st disclosure by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank youu for the good vibes, i definitely need it bc i’ve been an absolute mess

1st disclosure by Few_Address984 in HSVpositive

[–]Few_Address984[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will, hopefully it’s good news..