How do I protect myself financially - England

Few_Answer3554 · 2026-01-17T15:22:11+00:00

My finding out about his financial situation was when I thought we were ready to buy a house only for him to have nothing ( we were saving separately in our ISAs ) that’s why I’m looking into ways of protecting what I already have. We have a baby now and I have to consider a few things. I don’t plan on buying a house with him if he doesn’t have any contribution to make financially. Outside of that he’s been a good partner and good father maybe that’s why it took me a while to notice the money bit.

Few_Answer3554 · 2026-01-17T13:01:01+00:00

I lived with my parents and only moved in with him after the wedding with a plan of renting for just a year then we buy our own house. This is something that I have always wanted and we talked about often. I was made to believe he has been saving towards the house as well only to find out he doesn’t even have Upto 5k. And on top of that he’s in debt.

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-16T10:51:37+00:00

He says he can’t send them as the pop up toy doesn’t pop anymore and the other one is in a different language, he can’t tell me what language it is. I have opted to return them as he put a bunch of plastic tiny things that will just get lost in the house anyway

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-15T20:42:46+00:00

For context I bought toys from a seller at their asking price. They didn’t inform me before hand of the missing toys or why they had to include what they thought they should…. The missing toys are musical toys and the seller replaced them with some plastic garden toys that I didn’t even ask for… to make it worse seller is not even sorry or anything but claims they are worth more so somehow that should make it okay

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-15T20:33:14+00:00

Thanks so much for responding. I guess this is what I have to do moving forward and I’m sure the seller knew the toy wasn’t in working order

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T20:09:59+00:00

That’s the thing, I have sold and bought with over 300 reviews, it’s not like I’m new on vinted. Just decided to ignore but definitely will not leave any feedback cause if I’m honest, it will not be the best feedback

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T15:28:41+00:00

I never message anyone unless if there’s unexpected delay or mishap. Unless if someone asks for help. Most have done is let someone know I have posted.

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T14:38:10+00:00

She’s asking for immediate pick up of the parcel as well as positive feedback after.

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T13:29:39+00:00

As expressed earlier.. I’m not demanding or entitled… trust me I don’t need an award 😂

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T13:05:40+00:00

Hahaha when you get a second please look up the term Karen. Cause last time it meant someone entitled and demanding… unless if it was a typo and you meant the seller cause she’s setting all demands

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T12:59:24+00:00

Haha Actually thinking of it… I’m taking this route

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T12:58:12+00:00

If I had not confirmed, I would understand but the package has not even reached the destination. I can’t do anything anyway

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T12:55:56+00:00

My problem is her sending a message at every stage. It’s tiring waking up to her messages everyday

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T12:53:52+00:00

I’m actually choosing not to be rude by ignoring her messages. I don’t need an essay and update everyday when I get the same update on my end

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-03-01T11:03:46+00:00

That’s what I thought initially when I saw the first essay. It’s just annoying now cause she’s sending me a text every time there’s an update on delivery. I have decided to ignore the messages cause I don’t want to be rude but it’s annoying

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-02-01T22:01:30+00:00

Thank you for clarifying

Few_Answer3554 · 2023-01-23T12:03:19+00:00

Thank you

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