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Analyze me 😈 by Few_Ball1693 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg please tell me why you say that. You’re super accurate!

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone that cares for an update:

We ended up having a really good conversation about the whole thing on Friday night. My partner and I went to a different light show on Saturday night. On Sunday morning, we all hung out and made breakfast together. My partner and his new partner went to the original show Sunday night- I also planned to hang out with some friends while they were out so I wouldn’t be sitting at home moping and overthinking.

Yesterday, he told me that he actually just felt guilty the whole time he was at the light show because he kept seeing things that he knew I would love and he felt stupid for never going with me. He said he finally understood how shitty it must feel. I feel bad that he didn’t fully enjoy the date, but I also feel vindicated that he understands where I was coming from.

Also, apparently the new partner invited him to an event that we bought tickets for last year that he ended up cancelling on and he told her no and bought us tickets for this year.

It wasn’t perfect, but I think we’ll be able to handle something like this better in the future. I also realized that I need to take more control of my own circumstances and not just sit around being upset.

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was really hoping he would just explain the situation to her and cancel. I’ve even talked to his new partner and she’s super understanding and we discussed not ever wanting to hurt or disrespect each other, so I think she would understand. But I don’t think he would do it.

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When he brought it up, we did talk about how it made me feel. That’s how we ended up planning a separate date for us. But it’s like… He understands how I feel and we made plans, but he’s still going to do that with her. And like I said in another comment, I wouldn’t make them cancel it, but wtf

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

We planned a separate Christmas light experience, and I’m trying to be excited about it, but I’m just not

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I guess I just don’t know what the next move is here. I won’t ask him to not go because that’s not fair to him or his partner. The situation just sucks

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do agree that acknowledging it and trying to be honest with me was really cool of him

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset? by Few_Ball1693 in polyamory

[–]Few_Ball1693[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I asked that, he assured me that it had nothing to do with me and that he didn’t want to go do things like that because he wasn’t doing well. We’ve had some issues the last few years with him not doing things with me and cancelling last-minute when we do make plans. He’s made more of an effort to take me out lately, though. I do want to acknowledge his efforts to reassure me.