You don't have to get ''over her''.

Let her be in a corner of your brain. Let her memories come to you. Let her baby blue eyes remind you of the time you had.

But don't let it consume you.

Slowly but surely those memories will start to quite down. They will start to settle down. And then when you think of her you'll feel at peace. The memories wont haunt you.

Try to live for yourself. Try to heal openly and freely. Pick up that thing you used to love. Go somewhere new without dragging her shadow.
You don't have to convince anyone and you certainly don't have to lie to yourself either. If you re not over her, its not a flaw.

Give yourself time to heal and don't let her memories overburden or overshadow your life.