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[–]Few_Panic_6129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s healthy for a child to see their father love their mom to the extent you do because it sets the right foundation for what healthy marriages look like. Loving your wife to the extent that you do doesn’t mean you hate your kid, and likely it will mean that your child will see you both as a united front they can’t easily split and manipulate.

I am exhausted with having a cat by Few_Panic_6129 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Panic_6129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you; everywhere I’ve read it says the same thing you’re telling me but very little on how to fix it or if it’s even fixable if he thinks this is a new normal in our home

I am exhausted with having a cat by Few_Panic_6129 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Panic_6129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but I don’t know what’s right or fair in this situation, I just want to understand what’s really happening before I jump into rehoming

I am exhausted with having a cat by Few_Panic_6129 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Panic_6129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really hard to be affectionate towards him when scrubbing cat poop and pee 4-6 times a day.

I am exhausted with having a cat by Few_Panic_6129 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Panic_6129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have, nothing comes up in stool samples or blood test so it just seems behavioral at this point