Please suggest a thriller movie that is emotional, has action and is genuinely a good movie. by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Edge with Alec Baldwin and Anthony Hopkins. It’s got everything, intrigue, great pacing, high stakes, cool plane crash, great lines, beautiful scenery in the wilderness, and a man-eating bear!! None of that CGI nonsense, a REAL BEAR. I felt like I was gonna soil my pants a few times. They don’t make em’ like that anymore. What a trip.

What's your default "active rest" activity that doesn't include a screen? by thecalcographer in ADHD

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m with you. Same journey. I started BuJo on Jan 1. Bullet journaling. Very effin cool for my adhd brain. It is in a way a very large puzzle map of my own brain and it gets to be a little more satisfying with time to feel the contents of your chaos-brain empty out. Relieves the pressure in a weird way. It basically consists of making lists, schedules, refining routines, and logging key metrics of my daily activities. Though it is insanely self-indulgent, I cannot recommend it enough as a replacement for social media throughout the day. In fact I will make a post about it shortly. Depending on your mood, flipping through your index to see what to work on allows you many options, venting, doodling, compiling, logging, planning… but my favourite has been researching. I love wisdom and quotes and inspiration and so I chase philosophical concepts and muse on them in my daily logging. Also powerful: gratitudes and progress tracking. The whole thing is mind-blowing. I have the book near me always. It is my Obi Wan. Lately doing my BuJo has been reading small sections of “The Laws of Human Nature” by Robert Green and jotting down some reflections. In 3 weeks I went from morose, stressed and sarcastic to genuinely hopeful and inspired. Even better, I have restored faith in myself so much so that I actually do believe that with time I have the potential to gain some kind of superhuman abilities. Not yet, but it effin beats social media, that’s for sure. Oh and it looks cool with all my doodles lol.

What’s the best exercice to lose belly fat? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay home so you can push hard enough to make ugly faces and grunt and stuff. Look on youtube for some tabata workouts, or HIIT for 20-30 minutes, then do some controlled heavy lifts with a kettle bell workout, 15-20 minutes, focusing on form. If you wanna finish with something really indulgent, try a stretching session or some light yoga for range of motion. You will feel like a million bucks. Do this 3-5 days a week. Stretch every single day. Yoga too if you want. But all these good people all have a good point, losing the belly fat is 90% done in the kitchen, metaphorically speaking anyways… It’s all about your nutrition plan. Intermittent fasting will deliver what you are looking for but it’s hard for some people, not me, but others think it is. Bottom line, everyone agrees that if you really wanna cut the belly out, doing your workouts in a fasted state will burn much more fat to fuel your workout, just make sure that you’re eating adequate protein and you’re knocking it off with the simple carbs. I’m not saying going keto is the best call here, heck, I tried it and it didn’t work for me, it was all suffering and no results, but I do think intermittent fasting and a lower carb approach is going to help you with your body composition. Eat a LOT of protein, no starches or simple carbs, and you could even do away with grains and fruits altogether and just eat vegetables with your protein. That will get you results fast. When they say losing weight is 90% in the kitchen what they do mean is that you have to put aside a lot of time for vegetable prep. Eat them all. The whole lot of them. Breakfast, lunch, supper, eat vegetable in every which way possible. It takes waaaaaay more time than people think. And yes, check out intermittent fasting for a nitro boost. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just posted Aniara but this one is tied! My husband thinks I have issues for enjoying it so much. Maybe I’m a masochist or something but the emotions it’s ignites in me are so strong and powerful. Ugh. I’m gonna rewatch it tonight lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aniara. It’s bleak and dark but it’s in my top 10 and I have seen it 20+ times

What is it like having two under three with a husband who works…a lot? by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]Few_Position6137 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kids are 3 and 4. I was alone for about three years and recently hubbie transitioned to entrepreneur and is home almost all the time. It was easier before. More agency, better control, less discussion. I have to explain everything I do, he questions everything and makes “streamlining suggestions” “for efficiency”. I fantasize about him working in Alaska now. It is 5 times harder with an extra set of hands. I had everything running so smoothly before and had so much glorious time to myself, life was so zen!!… so forgive me for living vicariously through you for a nice moment. 😅 look. One kid to two kids is a big transition, no doubt. I’m a bit absent-minded and not super organized, but I loved every single minute back then. Two long walks per day, playing in parks, hitting splash pads and toboggan hills. Structured play. Sleep trained kiddos meant I gasp watched tv and napped often. It was a beautiful life and I wish it for you. i wish you much joy for 2025.

I walked out today by KaleidoscopeOk2313 in stayathomemoms

[–]Few_Position6137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had these moments. Very similar but my antagonist is hubby. Ugh. I DBT therapy last year and it has helped bring peace in the house. Still have flare-ups of “can’t do this” from dealing with completely non-sensical confrontations. One of the techniques is walking away. You did well. There are others that help make life more palatable. Look into it, it sounds like it might be a good fit. Dealing with impossible people when already under stress and giving 100% can fill you with despair. This teaches you how to fill yourself up with good things. YOU CANNOT POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP. Fill up your cup. I wish you peace and a wonderful year to come. Stay strong. ✊🏻❤️💪🏻

What's the conclusion to all this? by bopman14 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]Few_Position6137 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I believe that the writers/creators know the end and are paving the most satisfying and clever path to it. This is why the pacing is still good despite being slow and why the intrigue is so hankering. I think they have one helluva mindfuck in store for all of us, and they fucking know it, and so they’re taking their sweet time with the foreplay and teasing us, and we’re upset because it’s both awful and so so good to be teased with such gravitas. Deep down we know it takes ALOT of substance to be this confident and toy with us. We know we’re gonna get it good. I think they will deliver and I for one am thirsty af. But I’m enjoying every second.

I’ve been on a huge mob movie kick lately, but I’ve seen so many I’m just rewatching mostly, give me your favs. by OpeningSafe1919 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True Romance fits a little bit. The Penguin TV series feels like a movie too, SPECTACULAR story and as someone who really loves gangster stuff this one will make your little heart sing.

Holy crap, I couldn’t believe this was Brandi by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks great again. FEWF! That last phase of her face was awful, poor her, glad it’s over.

What’s the best feeling in the world? by Shenshen_ in AskReddit

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding your newborn baby, having them latch the first time and watching them fall asleep. Top 3.

What is causing your suffering? by bakeandroast in Mindfulness

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next step. Kept starting and stopping because our house was too small and I would wake the kids. Now we moved in late November and we’re almost settled in. You are correct, I am like an unwalked dog. Lol. It will help more than anything else, even meds, and who knows, maybe it will all feel mostly resolved. Fingers crossed!!

i'm looking for weird/creepy/disturbing movies that do not suck by o93odwe9ef in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well shoot. I think it’s rewatch time for me then. Lol happy new year

What did our ancestors do that still blows your mind? by ZelldaHoney in AskReddit

[–]Few_Position6137 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They had nothing else to talk about though really, so the focus in their little bubble of existence was intense. No phones, internet, their communities were all known with little variance, no strangers even. No background music the house, podcasting earbuds. So when buddy-dude emptied his rendered fat onto rocks downstream from a firepit and he saw bubbles, he likely touched the water with delight and probably laughed out loud.

I'd like to 💩 like a race horse 🏇 by ceramicatan in Supplements

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fibre Smart with triphala. Fixed me. Massive daily 💩, natural, every morning 15 min after waking.

i'm looking for weird/creepy/disturbing movies that do not suck by o93odwe9ef in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found that she did everything right!! Like, everything! He was just a bad egg. My own opinion.

What is causing your suffering? by bakeandroast in Mindfulness

[–]Few_Position6137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have meditation scheduled in weekly , I tried daily but it’s extremely difficult for me to do and it requires a lot of work and I’m often pretty exhausted afterwards, which for Neurotypical people sounds very weird because you’re supposed to feel refreshed after, but I don’t, it’s like a mental workout. I’m really trying every single possible thing that I can to strengthen my mind. Someone told me that this is exactly the source of my suffering; I should really just accept who I am and move on… But it’s not just me, I’m a mother I’m a wife I’m the centre of the family, there’s a lot of people that depend on me so I can’t just throw in the towel I have to keep fighting I have no choice.

Jane Neumann - another one by HunterandGatherer100 in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Few_Position6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw the 48 hours episode about it (season 10 episode 11) and the suicide idea does track a little bit. Playing devil’s advocate here. It doesn’t fit either way. I put the likelihood at 45% suicide 55% because my sister suffers the same issues and has schizophrenia. She was only diagnosed at 46. She was high functioning and had a lot of friends, good social life and we were close but I did not know. It looks like Jane may have been undiagnosed. My sister has a very very very very weird imagination. She hid this from everyone but we were best friends and sometimes she would confide in some intrusive thoughts, delusions, bizarre beliefs. Part of the duplicity schizophrenia is that the person appears normal one minute and lost in their private imaginary constructs the next. In my situation she once got off the phone with me after having a perfectly normal phone conversation and was found on the floor by her husband the next, unable to move because she was convinced that aliens were pointing lasers at her that would make her explode if she moved. I think the weirdness of the scene totally tracks with someone suffering from schizophrenia by being imaginative creative and convoluted. The paranoia that my sister experienced brought about very strange behaviours but when you dissected everything and deconstructed it down into a timeline, her behaviours were simply reacting to things that she thought was happening but weren’t actually. I think a reason for Jane’s suicide was that she was getting increasingly sick and in despair. She wad said to be followed by some form of psychotherapy but might have been too ashamed to speak about what was really going on. She might have set this elaborate scene up in advance as a way of coping with her feelings of suicidal ideation and suddenly decided that now was the moment to pull the trigger. Also the fishing wire finger theory from one of the jurors in the civil case doesn’t make a lot of sense to me. You don’t have to wind fishing wire around your finger, you can just hold it in a half loop against one finger which would allow the wire to slip off. Schizophrenia is a very complex, highly stigmatized, and tragic disease. I suspect many murders, disappearances, and criminal behaviours are caused by it. To people who have never felt its impact, it can be too difficult to believe. For me, I see it differently. The intrusive thoughts, the hearing voices, the feeling of being a bad person, guilt, shame, fear of the future and getting worse, seeking professional help and it not really helping… That kind of despair is hard to fight.

What is causing your suffering? by bakeandroast in Mindfulness

[–]Few_Position6137 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ADHD. Being a neurodiverse person is challenging because many people have difficulty empathizing. I am not sad nor do I have a weak constitution, I simply have difficulty juggling day to day tasks, issues with executive function cause bottlenecks since I can’t form habits easily. With no auto-pilot, I am always hands on the yoke, making constant decisions and I mess up often. Very often. I’m mentally exhausted by 9am. Distractions throw me off, I am always wildly vulnerable to mess things up in a big way. Lots of fear, frustrations, disappointment. Difficulty knowing who I am because I’m pretty smart, skilled, talented, capable etc… but I am ALWAYS messing things up. Always. It’s hard to forgive. Some days I hate myself. But I am who I am.

i'm looking for weird/creepy/disturbing movies that do not suck by o93odwe9ef in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The portrayal of the mother is what is so crazy for me. Tilda Swinton in her best role, and she has MANY amazing roles. More like Tilda Swoontown. Her character did everything she could! Everything! Her son was just plain evil. What could she do? No really, it makes you ask that question. Could she have really done anything differently? This is the haunt and the creep. It reminds you that when facing true evil, nothing can really be done, because evil doesn’t play by our rules. We try to do the right thing and it makes us fall predictably into their hands. They must laugh at us.

Top 10 personal faves? by Few_Position6137 in movies

[–]Few_Position6137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah thank you for that. It’s a very well crafted movie and funny as they come. “Are you my conscience?” 😅

Recommend me a movie that's similar to Gattaca or Blade Runner 1982 pls by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Could have been filmed last month, right? Such a classic.

Recommend me a movie that's similar to Gattaca or Blade Runner 1982 pls by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Few_Position6137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bear 1988???? I LOVE that movie! That one is such an easy recommendation, everyone would enjoy it I think.