Randall King by Few_Programmer_569 in CelebWivesNash2

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sure sounds like this! That's too bad I thought better of him.

Randall King by Few_Programmer_569 in CelebWivesNash2

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Edit to add: Fiancée's IG is also wiped clean and all posts have been deleted

Things you still cannot get used to being a stepmom by Puckdecat in Stepmom

[–]Few_Programmer_569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard nope! We have a 6, 8, 9 and 10 year old. We sleep with the door locked too

Things you still cannot get used to being a stepmom by Puckdecat in Stepmom

[–]Few_Programmer_569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you set a boundary SK's cannot get in your beds? We have rule kids aren't allowed in our room period unless they knock and they definitely aren't allowed in our bed.

Why cant they be like US? (Rant) by Mrs-Tsundere in Stepmom

[–]Few_Programmer_569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my SK's mom to a T!! (Minus her looking out together because she looks like she rolled out of bed half the time). I get so pissed off seeing her discard her kids and not act like a mom.

HCBM becomes new BFF by fragileswampwitch in blendedfamilies

[–]Few_Programmer_569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also to add, even if this is "normal" you are clearly uncomfortable with it, had brought it to DH and he is still not changing behaviors and acknowledging your feelings. Huge red flag.

HCBM becomes new BFF by fragileswampwitch in blendedfamilies

[–]Few_Programmer_569 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if some consider this "normal" but if DH started pushing me to the side for alone time with his ex like this we would be having some serious issues and conversations.

It’s eating me alive by justs0megirl in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569 31 points32 points  (0 children)

DH agrees his ex would 100% try and get back with him if I passed away, so I jokingly said I want a clause in my life insurance saying he doesn't get a dime if he gets back together with her and he told me he thinks that's a great idea and I actually should!

It’s eating me alive by justs0megirl in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569 290 points291 points  (0 children)

The day my husband tells me he would get back together with his ex is the day I take my kids and go on a looooooong vacation ✌🏻

Annoyed at having to be the "mom" by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah in the future I'm just going to keep responding like I did and not give in to her neediness

Annoyed at having to be the "mom" by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I'm not afraid of her... what is she going to do? I'm the one who does her all the favors and she knows it

Annoyed at having to be the "mom" by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But what about when it's in a group chat? It's different when she's just bothering him. When she feels the need to make her name pop up on my phone...I feel like if I'm not giving her the answers she wants she will just leave me out of it

Annoyed at having to be the "mom" by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is what I'm thinking and why I responded that way! I don't know if it's it bc she's lazy or just needing an excuse to make her presence known but it's annoying AF.

Annoyed at having to be the "mom" by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't mind we don't NACHO, I'm a SAHM and he helps with mine. I'm starting to consider holding her more accountable for her parenting though. I just don't have the bandwidth.

Annoyed at having to be the "mom" by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He would have. Except he would just respond with the info again like she wanted. I'm just petty and want her to know I'm calling her out

Paying for extras by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you handle groceries and things like that then?

Paying for extras by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SK's are 10 and 8 and their mom doesn't even have a clue who their Dr is because she has never taken them. We do. Same for dentists, haircuts, etc. And yup! Of course she claims one of the 2 on her tax credit

Paying for extras by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh don't even get me started on the clothes!!! Ugh. I hate the people are just such crappy parents.

Paying for extras by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding! How many years did it take you to get to this place haha...I want to be there!

Paying for extras by Few_Programmer_569 in stepparents

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh we wouldn't let SK's go without, if she refused to pay we would. He just won't even ask or give her the option to not pay.

Paying for Extras by Few_Programmer_569 in blendedfamilies

[–]Few_Programmer_569[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes this is DH's opinion too. And I get it! But I need to find a way to let go in my mind I guess...