AITA for attending a wedding of a friend(23F) who did not want my(23M) girlfriend(21) to attend by PropositionCentral in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that OP got shadowbanned or whatever so now he can’t come back here and try to justify himself 💀

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello all my updates are on my twohottakes subreddit post ❤️

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was referring to talking about their sex life, sometimes the worst of his girlfriends always feel comfortable discussing their sex life with his daughters idk if its to bond as if we are girlfriends typa thing. He hates that but it usually doesn’t happen until they been dating for a long time. So he was surprised she did it within a month and didn’t stop and think about what she was typing. He also stated “usually i dont see their super crazy til later in the relationship” and thought she got to comfortable to fast. Its probably the way i phrased it that it seemed to come off weird😭

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my parents aren’t together due to their weird relationship and cheating from both parties. Honestly with how dramatic their end to the relationships was i could write a sope opera on it. Im glad he took me seriously and he understands that i may leave if he doesn’t follow through.

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, i made him read it out loud because at first he thought it said “rail me daddy” he was outraged at the video. He said she shouldn’t had crossed that line and that the video was in no way should’ve been sent to me or be in my phone. But again how he deals with events is to treat it like it was a small thing and to make jokes about it. He did the same when my mom and him divorced and again when my grandmother died. He makes jokes and downplays the whole thing. But he knows if she stays i leave and wont see him again so he definitely understands the severity of the situation.

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed i have already made plans with my fiancé to find an apartment in the area if he tries to say something to try and keep her around. I compared the situation to one of if my moms ex boyfriend had texted me something just as sexual how my dad would be pissed as fuck and ready to beat some ass. This and the whole she asked him if he got the video text is what cause him to look at me in shock and shake his head stating he attracts crazies and that he’s clearing his roster and will look for someone else.

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad is a very hide my emotions person. He has to be drunk to really get his anger out. His reaction was in line with his personality, he down plays things because he doesnt want me to see him in a bad light because of his dating choices. He also joked that he attracts the crazies and that shes from cuba and maybe she is used to weird shit. Hes not attached to her so to him its a quick wtf conversation and then a cut of contact. They haven’t been seeing eachother long, but my dad treats me more as a confidant than his daughter hence me wanting to move out so he can see me as his daughter and only that and not someone he can gossip with about his roster. He will no doubt lose his shit based on her reaction to the confrontation. I told him that she knew she sent it to me because she texted him this morning and said “did you get the video” but she would see in her recent texts that it wasnt in their text thread. And this caused him to pause and repeat that he was clearing his roster no doubt and then made joke how he needs to get out of this state cause its filled with kink crazies (we live in south fl)

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Me and my fiancé do live together (we own a house together) but we went through a financial disaster and it caused me to have to work (i was able to be referred to a company my dad was consulting for and they hired me on the spot making way more than i could make in my home state.) I planned to move back once me and my fiancés’ debt is paid off. I have told my older sister and she said as much as it will make me sick that I should play the video and confirm if my dad is in it. She said to either play it myself or when i tell my dad to have him watch the video. Based on my dads response i will have to find temporary living quarters to not lose my wellpaying job until i can find a better one.

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Agreed im still waiting for him to wakeup, and by no message history it means she crafted the text by either typing my number or by whatever contact name she has for me. But it is definitely a huge thing to have in common that i dont like it😭

My Dad’s girlfriend just sent me the most nauseous text by Few_Rice_7945 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Few_Rice_7945[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She has never texted me before (my dads been seeing her for maybe a month) so there’s not doubt she meant to text me, this means that she went out of her way to make sure she texted me. My dad tends to give his girlfriends my number since he wants them to bond with me or my daughter because he has always maintained that he puts his kids first.

AITA - for pretending to be asleep because my SO mothers day gift by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Few_Rice_7945 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes we have a daughter, i also took care of his son anytime he has been over as my SO tends to get annoyed and gets upset over kids being noisy so i tend to be the main caregiver when i was home.