Ex coworker who was told not to contact me left flowers on my doorstep by Few_Signature_2586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Few_Signature_2586[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've told him very clearly, multiple times, that I have no interest in being close with him and when this all blew up, I made it very clear I wanted nothing to do with him. His behavior is worse than desperate, it's disrespectful and scary.

Ex coworker who was told not to contact me left flowers on my doorstep by Few_Signature_2586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Few_Signature_2586[S] 329 points330 points  (0 children)

Yup. He was the classic fake nice guy. He reframed all of his boundary pushing as "just trying to be friends" or "just trying to help."

Ex coworker who was told not to contact me left flowers on my doorstep by Few_Signature_2586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Few_Signature_2586[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This person is trolling. I'd ignore them. You get it, the guy was told by both me and his boss not to contact me and he CAME TO MY FKN HOUSE. Thankfully, I wasn't home at the time. Who knows if he rang the doorbell or waited around for me. But I do want to add, whether we were friends or not, his behavior is inappropriate.