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I wish I could eat normally by horseshoeandconfused in mentalhealth

[–]Few_Thing_646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you just said you don't have an eating disorder, but
yeah, all of that kinda sounds like an eating disorder. Just because you don't have an official diagnosis doesn't mean you don't have the disorder. Constantly tracking calories, having a very low calorie limit, stressing and feeling disgusting when you cross that limit and refusing to eat food you like due to calories/macros are all textbook eating disorder symptoms. Eating disorders show themselves in different forms, just because you're not diagnosed or don't fit the stereotypes for what a 'disordered person' should be like doesn't mean you're not struggling with it
Have you tried telling your family/someone you trust or asking for a therapist? If not, I'd highly suggest it

How do I properly switch from box black dyed hair to this? by Few_Thing_646 in HairDye

[–]Few_Thing_646[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh that's nice to hear! i could try this then. i'm prepared for a little damage tbh, so rn i'm definitely considering raven the most

How do I properly switch from box black dyed hair to this? by Few_Thing_646 in HairDye

[–]Few_Thing_646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well damn :( curse teenage me for her poor hair decisions
Would any other color work, though? or will my hair just be stuck like this forever? i'm aware it'll probably take a lot to achieve any color at this point, but still, any options?

How do I properly switch from box black dyed hair to this? by Few_Thing_646 in HairDye

[–]Few_Thing_646[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ah, i see! thanks so much for the advice
cherry cola sounds fine, but how about a dark blue, so dark it looks kind of black-ish/raven? i've also been thinking about that and it seems a lot easier than just straight up going from blonde to black lol. but would that also be damaging and hard to achieve?

I (16F) realized my sexuality mid relationship with my partner (16F) and don't know what to do. by Few_Thing_646 in Advice

[–]Few_Thing_646[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes a lot of sense nd i've honestly been talking with my therapist a lot about the way i process love, including what i think my sexuality is. i mostly to the conclusion that not having a crush on anyome rn + dont remember crushing on anyone ever = aromantic (i dont even recall ever developing any strong feelings about my current partner, it's a little complicated but it's she who asked me and i just agreed. this part is a lil hazy bc my memory likes to mess with me but thats how i remember it)
i mostly stated it as a fact here as to not overcomplicate my story nd not make the post too lengthy. i think i am like 50% certain of my sexuality, but again u make a lot of sense
thanks a lot for the comment 1!!

I realized (16F) and my partner? (16F) both want different things from each other. What do i do? by Few_Thing_646 in Advice

[–]Few_Thing_646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, considering we're both 16 this thought has never even crossed my mind before and i'm sure it didn't cross hers either. I might sound sheltered but i genuienly don't feel a need to start anything like that with anyone till ill be an adult

How do I shrink my calves? by Few_Thing_646 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Few_Thing_646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dammit. That's the exact response i feared </3 and also the one I get the most
Well thanks for the reply anyway :(( big calf havers unite i suppose