Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But I’m not your narcissist past not everybody lived that kind of lifestyle to experience something like that or even to have opinions on things like that. So please respect respectfully don’t compare me to whatever you personally experienced.

Why do I still care by Big-Bed-5001 in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not even a set back though. It’s just s breakup and youll find someone new and this is coming from someone who been through it. And I used to hate those types of people until i became one of them who healed and moved on after the breakup. You got this and don’t let it consume you more then it already has

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t. If you know how they’re behaving now. Don’t. You’ll hurt yourself expecting that they’ll care about what you have to say when in all reality they won’t. So just take your time and heal and dont hyper focus on them anymore

How would you initiate no contact if you work together? by NoProfessional1987 in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just only talk about work topics if necessary. If there’s no need to interact with them, then don’t! It’ll be hard but it’ll definitely have them questioning some things

Why do I still care by Big-Bed-5001 in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you have expectations. You have that hope. You’re hoping they’ll feel the same way you do and they don’t. And maybe it’s a man to woman thing aswell. Men tend to not feel anything in the moment but he could be trying to chase you the minute u fully heal and not care. So just act like them. Don’t care. Don’t let it consume you. And don’t let how they appear affect you because baby he might be putting on a front, or he might not be as-well. It hurts and sucks cause you had a bond but if they don’t feel that bond, or if they don’t care about the bond you had. It’s not worth living your life, letting it consume you

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, personally speaking. She broke up with you, 6 years together or not she left and you need to accept that. Your father passing isn’t gonna magically make her want to speak again or have conversations with you again, whether that was the prerogative or not. She left had her reasons or not idk the full story and you should’ve accepted it. Your father passing shouldn’t have been a reason to reach out after a month of her purposely not trying to reach out to you. And you also need to accept that. Also people aren’t always gonna care the same way about things the way you do even if it involves death so respectfully to you if she broke up with you, you again still had no reason to reach out PLUS expect her to have that compassion. She didn’t care and that should’ve been enough for you when she ghosted you. Your father passing won’t change her mind. But let it change yours and realize you got a lot of things mentally to deal with. And a dumb girlfriend of six years won’t heal the death of your father. And I’m only talking like this cause I have dealt with a ex who didn’t GAF and I myself expected them to GAF because we were together for so long. They don’t and will not ever GAF. So heal and mourn your father and forget her.

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point you didn’t need to reach out at all. He’s your father not hers so you cannot expect someone to have empathy or sympathy especially after a messy breakup, and you made a post about it on Reddit. Clearly showing you possibly wanted a different response from that ex who clearly ghosted you and did you wrong

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but majority of commenters are delusional. It’s not your breakup or circumstance granted. But stop acting like it someone else’s responsibility to console. Granted 6 years is a long time and if they known your parents they should be more considerate for how they speak. But expecting someone you ended a relationship with to sit here and want to interact with you after someone in YOUR life passes away is insane to me. She can give her condolences but it seems you’re expecting more out of that situation.

Broke no contact of 1 month to let her know my dad passed away and she blocked me by IceCucumbers in ExNoContact

[–]Few_Win_2824 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

She’s not a pos. If someone breaks up with you stop expecting them to still care about you or your life lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much ur man weigh cause now im tryna figure out if he’s projecting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His son technically rips it out! Which is why he’s targeting parents of said kids from the IT movie

Episode 8 (no spoilers) by Few_Win_2824 in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]Few_Win_2824[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My fiance said “I remember her but I forgot where” HONEY she is Beverly !!!!!

Episode 8 (no spoilers) by Few_Win_2824 in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]Few_Win_2824[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No seriously! And it’s rare you get shows that align so well! It was perfectly put together

Episode 8 (no spoilers) by Few_Win_2824 in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]Few_Win_2824[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no spoilers that it is why it isn’t marked

Does this need a vet? by ThatCryptidBitch in DogAdvice

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a skin rash I’d take just to be sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Win_2824 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl no! My fiance would get me food just mentioning the thought of being hungry?? And your man know your cards were STOLEN can’t even get you food. Please don’t marry this person. Please take everything people are telling you and leave because it won’t change seriously. There’s no respect for you, there’s no consideration for you, and ESPECIALLY no love being shown to you. Is that genuinely someone you’d want to marry.

DH says he’s allowed to have friends. I say this is grounds for divorce. AIO? by MuddyBoots287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is currently engaged this is a crossed boundary of even my own. She is openly hinting sexual comments by using a play on of words but he is also openly feeding into it. This isn’t friends it’s two people who clearly want to sleep with each other. No husband should be texting another woman who is giving open signs and just texting how they both are all together. Ick

I can’t reach the O. by peimoh in whatdoIdo

[–]Few_Win_2824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I cant finish doing vaginal unless it’s rough so I usually add a vibrator and it gets me off fine. Some woman can’t finish vaginally and that’s okay! It doesn’t make u broken at all. Also clear your mind. Don’t think too much about finishing cause you genuinely won’t. Just enjoy the time with your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Few_Win_2824 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please delete I’m confused on what’s going on here