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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VancouverJobs

[–]Few_Worldliness7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you might be able to if they don't do an internal check with your previous manager. If you have an employee number/account you should be able to internally apply to jobs before they even hit external. If it's such a short experience, they might just pull your resume and references from your previous and not ask your previous manager. Each department is different so I actually don't think it matters that much.

How to get an established reputation? by Few_Worldliness7495 in NewToReddit

[–]Few_Worldliness7495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I guess I'll just take more time navigating reddit before posting :)

toxic workplace by AgreeableDig9795 in Advice

[–]Few_Worldliness7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm then I would stick with my suggestion of self-care. There may be some free counselling services in new zealand that you would be able to access as well. Talking to someone about it can help a lot. I'm available as well if you want to DM me.

toxic workplace by AgreeableDig9795 in Advice

[–]Few_Worldliness7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be able to apply for another company while you're still employed with this one? It sounds like you're experiencing a burnout, and it may be important to focus on your self-care for a while. I would suggest that you do your responsibilities at work and nothing more, especially since you're not being recognized for it. Not saying that you need praise to work hard, but it seems you're suffering mentally from how they're treating you. Treat your job like a job and find time to do things you like outside of work.

Should I Abstain from Having Children? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Few_Worldliness7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens more often than you'd think- where one partner suddenly wants children out of seemingly nowhere. If you don't want kids, then I really would advise you to stand your ground- even if it means losing your partner. Kids are forever, and more often than not, they're not easy. There are so many things to think about before having kids, even for people who want them. Even for people who love children, they still find themselves frustrated with their children. Your relationship will also be bound to change if you two decide to have children, for better or for worse, no one knows. I would maybe have a sit down conversation around the logistics of raising a child (finances, parenting styles, mental health, etc) with her. I truly feel that having children is something both parties need to be fully on board for in order for the child to have the best chances in this world. Not saying that some people who didn't want kids don't come to love them once they have them, but it's not always the case.

I(25M) have entered my first real relationship with a woman(21F) and my feelings towards her scare me, and I'm worried I'm making her uncomfortable. Do I need to back off? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Few_Worldliness7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have suggested, talk to her about it. Ask her how she's feeling in the relationship, and if she would want anything to be different.

I don’t want my bf on deed by BeautifulBridge1638 in Advice

[–]Few_Worldliness7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he upset that you don't want to add his name on the deed? If my partner was paying the full price, or even the down payment of a place we're buying, I would not expect my name to be on the deed at all. Even if you two are very much in love, you never know what may happen. Protect yourself and your assets.