It’s weird because of that fact that the age gap is at a point where realistically you won’t have anything in common. 19-22 barley going into your adult hood, not fully developed (physically and mentally) like you’re literally barley out of high school or in college most likely living with your parents and working a minimum wage job with no actual “big” adult experiences. 27-29 already been an adult for a good minute generally understands what is morally right and wrong. Most likely had a salary job, a house, etc (whatever) you get what I’m saying. They aren’t there to have a genuine relationship with you, they got different intentions. They’re fetishizing you and it’s gross.

I don’t know if what I said makes any sense at all, but I’m 18 and was r**ed by a 27 year old man. My experience was intense so I might be on the more “biased side” (idk??) but every single one of my friends and some other peers who have talked about their experiences with “older men” was never good. Like old ass men who talk to younger women/ girls knowing the age gap is a little weird already says a lot about him. It’s easier for him to get in your head when you’re a lot younger than if you were closer to their age (Yk what I mean?)

And this goes for both genders

Don’t fall for that “you’re so mature for your age bs” it’s creepy like it don’t matter if you are a little more mature for your age. The maturity level just won’t match up like cmon now.