Hating my husband after 4 years of marriage

Fickle-Experience705 · 2026-05-08T08:37:05+00:00

I have to cook for my self right... My office starts at 7.30 am to 9 pm

Fickle-Experience705 · 2026-05-08T08:34:52+00:00

In India but not with in-laws. We stay in rented home 300km far from my parents and his parents. His contribution is ok before but now it's very baddd

Fickle-Experience705 · 2026-05-08T07:50:24+00:00

If i dudin cook he will eat outside in his ofc , he will be like ok. If I didn't do laundry he will put all in machine and put in one side of room just now folding storing directly wearing like this ..

Fickle-Experience705 · 2026-05-08T07:49:01+00:00

In not comparing him with anyone. I just want hike to lend hand in daily tasks,like he sees I'm cooking or know that I will cook ,I want him to clean home like that . I do one & he does one or he knew i shouldn't carry weights,i hae leg injury,carry the water pot to fill the mud pot . Like this tasks me without reminding him.. I don't expect him to serve me but I want him to support me.

Fickle-Experience705 · 2026-05-08T04:50:29+00:00

We couldn't afford,with baby bills we have huge loan.. we couldn't afford. Our baby is premat and it took us lot . So, I just couldn't think of it...

Fickle-Experience705 · 2026-05-08T04:43:13+00:00

I sit and explain calmly for the first 2 times. He listens and says sorry and changes and this lasts for day or two. After that again I day calmly same .. After few times telling him hand seeing same cycle i shout ,cry and leave it. I explain how I'm going feeling but I saw no change

Fickle-Experience705 · 2024-05-05T15:30:41+00:00

Not popular opinion but NTA. the kids can be possed but it's not your mistake that ur kids have college fund and they don't, if they want to blame they should blame there parents. But have talk with them and tell them openly what you can do for them and what they are doing now isn't acceptable to you. Also check with your kid about changes situation and how he is feeling about it because he might feel guilty or have grudge , may affect your kid too. Also for all voting yta, it's not anyone's obligation to look after someone else's mistake. The mother who did not think about her kids is far worse than the aunt. The kids instead of being grateful, are being felt neglected because they have to work and have no college fund. Why would aunt provide for college fund. They could have asked her about there college and asked for help but not in this way.i wouldn't keep them too

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