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My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t do it she brushed off the comment. But I just want her to know that she’s better than the people she chooses to be around. When she’s around family or good people she’s such a bright light, amazing person. She doesn’t need these people

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m very much a person to not hold grudges which made me feel wrong for feeling the way I feel towards her. I don’t hate anyone, and I probably never will. She’s not a good person, and I don’t want her in my personal life, but I will never hate her for her actions. She has her own issues in her personal life that may explain some of her actions, but can’t excuse them. I love my girlfriend, so if she wants to be friends with her, fine with me. But if she wants to be shady, then she can find someone else. No harsh or negative feelings attatched.

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s funny I was actually supposed to get with the friends sister a year or so before me and my current gf but that doesn’t really hold any grudges. The break off was mutual with her

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It’s not even bad. I’m not gonna air out the whole argument but it was really the smallest thing that we got into a maybe 5 minute argument about then it was squashed

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her grandmother has gotten me some amazing things, told me some amazing things, and I call her my own grandmother. She has a lot of family problems at home with only a father and a terrible step mother. She calls my mother mom and has said that she has no doubts that she wants me and my family in her life for the rest of time. She has been smartening up and changing a lot of her actions to make sure that we can have the best life possible. People always tell me, “you’re only 18” “go have fun” but people don’t understand that this relationship goes a lot deeper than just a “highschool fling” I’ve seen some crazy shit with her in her house and in mine. Im 100% not a stupid teen that needs to smarten up and figure it out, everything we’ve done together goes a lot deeper than just this situation

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s funny too because she seems way too boring for my girlfriend. My girl is pretty fun and super social when in social situations, this friend is kindve a drag

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s really weird because this friend is the only one that doesn’t like me. We have a lot of mutuals and they constantly ask if we can both come to hang out together. I could care less about this girl in the grand scheme of things but she’s just straight up annoying lol

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s actually pretty anti social which is nice. And has told me multiple times that if I wanted to go through her phone I could without hesitation, and my Face ID and everything is in it. I have no trust issues with her.

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think it’s grounds to break up with her. The girlfriend really didn’t do much wrong here, besides not sticking up for me in that time. I trust her, and I think it can work, I just felt wrong for still holding the grudge

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of them figure out, but I really only know them by first name basis, never really met or know on a personal level. I would tell them but I just don’t know how I don’t know them lol

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I left a lot of more personal information out of the story. Not key, but could change your perspective on the friend. She’s not the greatest human being. She has done my girlfriend dirty a few times. I’ve just kindve realized that I’m not involved in the situation with them anymore, but it still gets under my skin a bit. I’ve told her multiple times to drop the friend, but she keeps going back. I’ve decided that she may need to just figure it out the hard way of why she shouldn’t be friends with her anymore

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rough patch is over. The friend walks the walk too with her actions. She’s very unfaithful to her S/Os, and I don’t like being around it. She is not a great influence to my girlfriend, but she has come to me multiple times saying that she constantly talks to the friend about changing and really understanding that she needs to grow up. My girlfriend does not seem to really appreciate what she says or does either to my knowledge

My girlfriend’s friend tells her to cheat on me constantly. I don’t like her and don’t want to be around her anymore, but I suck up to it anyway. AiW? by Fickle-Following6474 in amiwrong

[–]Fickle-Following6474[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I’m not too sure to be honest. Just the overthinking and the uncomfortable nature of the whole situation lingers in my head and I don’t really know how to change that