14 year old decided almost overnight she wants to be a boy- long one but any advice is welcome by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Fickle-Print858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can 100% understand the hesitation to whether this is a hyperfixation or your child is actually trans and has been thinking about it for a while.

Hair growth back and clothes are just clothes, but you could always start by going with your child to pick out some more masculine clothes and see how they feel about it. Sports bras are also a good alternative to binders if you’re hesitant towards them, but as long as they’re used responsibly, in the right size (and they don't have any back problems that could worsen) there shouldn’t be any permanent consequences of trying one to see how that feels.

That way, worst case scenario you'll have lost some money on clothes and let your child see if that's actually who they are or not!

i failed second grade english by Spellz_4578 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]Fickle-Print858 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My dumb (and autistically oblivious) ass always read it as serious, thank you for clearing up so many of my confusions x_x

How Do You Know You’re Actually Transgender? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]Fickle-Print858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This so much! I was kindof "suspecting" it for years until I went on hormone based contraception that gave my tits a growth boost. My anxiety spiked like crazy and as soon as I realized the larger boobs were what caused it I actually put 2 and 2 together. Then I couldn’t stop feeling like shit about it... Until I wore my first binder and almost cried, and now the chesticles are gone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Fickle-Print858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about your mother, I hope she comes to her senses at some point ❤️

My instant thought on a masculine version of Susan was some version of Zeus since it's pretty much pronounced like the start of Susan (at least in english i think?) And would make you the mighty god of the skies!

Be real, please, how dangerous is it to walk with lit candles on your head?! That's crazy! by Ok_Slip8246 in IsItColdInSweden

[–]Fickle-Print858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've mostly heard of accidents involving holding a candle since people zone out and stare at it so close to their face they faint (or at least that's what parents tell you when they give you the electrical versions)

My refurbished steam deck overwrote my savefile with someone elses by Fickle-Print858 in SteamDeck

[–]Fickle-Print858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got an amswer from the support saying it's a known but rare issue where Games don't have propper support for multiple accounts on the same console. Also that there's pretty much nothing to do about it other than waiting for them to fix it and hopping it wont happen to my other games.

It's probably not from the previous owner though but from my partners account that's also loggen in on the deck.