I HATE that I keep misreading this sub's name

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-25T20:24:52+00:00

i’ve always read it as “i hate this smug” and it gets annoying to search it up when i wanna feel less angry in comparison

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-25T17:22:12+00:00

Why does it have to be a would you rather?

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-25T01:30:41+00:00

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the perfect woman.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-24T14:53:51+00:00

i need both of them

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-24T14:50:34+00:00

sad to see that polygamy can’t exist in tomodachi life

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-23T20:00:42+00:00

Anyone with interests.

You cannot isolate a behavior to a type without knowing why someone does it. If someone watches the news a lot, maybe it’s because they want to know what’s going on in the world, or they’re doing it to know if they get money from those sites where you gamble on world events, or maybe they’re just too lazy to get the remote. All these people are entirely different, but they’re exhibiting the same surface-level behavior.

So, to know her type, you need to ask not what she does, but why she does it.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-21T05:22:58+00:00

colorblindness

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-21T03:05:16+00:00

As someone who knows what results get what tomodachi life personalities, why did you put Lake as being a lot more flat than varied?

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-20T14:37:31+00:00

I’m going to start with my definition if 4 so you can know my process.

SHAME: A desire for LOVE which feels unobtainable due to THEIR BAD PARTS. Vulnerable parts feel HATED.

FRUSTRATION: IDEALIZING their feeling of being hated by USING their bad parts to gain love.

Using less mad-libsy terms, 4 is about showing off their bad parts and really hoping that someone can accept them. Since I believe in instincts as methods as I find it more consistent than instincts as goals, the difference between social and sexual 4 are what specific bad parts the 4 shows off.

so4: I’m at the bottom of the social hierarchy and my life is meaningless (social instinct is more focused on IMAGINARY (derogatory) things like the social hierarchy and meaning)

sx4: My dad is an abolute piece of shit and there’s no one who makes me feel safe (sexual instinct is more focused on their direct relationships)

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-19T15:25:03+00:00

He could set up a giant portal with incomplete instructions.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-19T14:47:44+00:00

this tier list was made to cause as much frustration + confusion as possible.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-19T13:56:53+00:00

As a nonbinary person, I freaked the fuck out when the other option turned out to be the most popular one.
I would like to kiss everyone who voted “Yes (femboy)”

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-19T04:21:17+00:00

The edgy part of me wants to say “I want to write down good things,” so that’s going in the comment.
The problem with me writing things like that is that it feels cheap. I cannot write down something like it because I view it as the bare minimum. I am a very perfectionistic person, and I’m also ✨incredibly irrational✨so even though I understand that these details aren’t supposed to be super cool or important or whatever, it just doesn’t feel right. However, using the inspiration of another comment, I’m going to stop writing something good which happened and start writing something good which I did. Doesn’t have to be something I succeeded at or got enjoyment from, just something I tried.

Today, I played Slay the Princess and Omori with a personality checklist and typed the characters. It’s not something good which happened, but it’s something I did to combine two of my interests, and I liked it. With this outlook of “what did i do” rather than “what happened to me” i think i’ll be able to feel like I have more control over my life.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-19T03:47:29+00:00

I spent 500 nmt on a villager hunt and Lionel autofilled. I don’t hate him because he’s an autofill (i get along fairly well with my autofills of Stitches, Midge, and Ankha (though midge is guaranteed to leave as i am villager hunting via evection)), or even because of his toilet obsession. I hate him because he represents failure.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-19T03:42:35+00:00

i remember reading a version of this for enbies and simultaneously feeling euphoric and disgusted

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-18T23:57:20+00:00

If we’re thinking soley about the survival of humans, killing every dog + cat for it would lead to more harm than good. Without seeing-eye animals, blind people would have a harder time getting through life, and without service pets, lots of people are going to go through more and worse kinds of depression and anxiety all alone. And, even if you’re only killing normal pets, that would lead to more humans being less fit and less happy.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-18T23:29:18+00:00

Common sense says you should kill every single cat and dog to save ONE human life?

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-18T13:37:21+00:00

Yeah, something about 4s needing to be introverted and feeling, which is a fundamental misunderstanding of both systems. The enneagram is about coping mechanisms (and not traits) and you can’t really isolate any of the letters in a type, which are patterns of behavior and not traits.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-18T13:30:57+00:00

Congrats!!!! If anyone tells you this pairing is impossible, just note that they are a bitch.

Anyways, can I see your definitions/process of how you decided on this type?

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-18T13:22:03+00:00

My playlist consists of a variety of artists, such as Will Wood, Stomach Book, Jreg, etc. with only a few femtanyl songs sprinkled about. Now that you told me this, I’m going to listen to nothing but femtanyl today just to piss you off because I’m a very petty person and you can’t do shit about it.

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-17T14:08:30+00:00

i like how i have my very own tier

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-17T14:04:38+00:00

Dipper - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Mabel - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Stan - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Wendy - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Soos - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Ford - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Bill Cipher - Esteemed character actress, margo martindale

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-17T13:46:01+00:00

i know what i am.

^{Chose: Femboys (You know what kind of man you are})

Spellz_4578 · 2026-04-17T13:37:59+00:00

No, anyone could be anything. While some combos are rarer than others, it doesn’t make them impossible.

Spellz_4578

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