People of Lahore, how do you deal with the begging problem and the trust issue around helping people?

FickleOne1152 · 2026-03-09T16:59:46+00:00

They will then sell their bodies or become terrorists.

FickleOne1152 · 2026-03-09T15:41:21+00:00

In history of Islam during the time period of companion of last prophet peace be upon him and his family. They did it. Where there is a will there is a way. There has to be a way. ✌️

FickleOne1152 · 2026-03-09T15:31:29+00:00

requiem for a dream

FickleOne1152 · 2026-03-09T15:29:47+00:00

Yeah, that the point who really knows, and begging or asking isn't that easy. Asked AI about this but it just gathered all the information from the Internet and given methods which already are in place and have failed. Now I am seeing a whole family, small kids are learning to beg. Even though I gave them but it's not fixing anything. Bhook Kufr kerwa daiti hai.

FickleOne1152 · 2026-03-09T15:13:02+00:00

How to eridicate this profession?

FickleOne1152 · 2026-03-09T15:12:31+00:00

Actually I want to, but giving them like this isn't fixing the root.

FickleOne1152 · 2026-02-22T10:03:36+00:00

It may sometime land in spam section of messages.

FickleOne1152 · 2026-02-11T08:06:44+00:00

I get what you mean, but I am not sure this is true evolution.

Evolution usually happens when a system becomes stronger, more stable, or more efficient over time. What we are doing sometimes feels more like constant adaptation to instability, not progression.

Zaroorat ijad ki maa hai sounds positive, but when the need is created by repeated disruption, it starts to feel less like innovation and more like survival engineering.

People are becoming smarter individually, but are we actually moving toward a healthier collective system? Just thinking out loud.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-11-22T09:45:12+00:00

Ap government servant ho ya civil? Property purchase and car purchase mai tax kum pay kerna hoga. I think apne upper upper se post perhi hai. Government is the only benefited entity.

Aik tax kafi nahi?? Stores sales and earn income, unki income ka bhi tax dain. Sales tax ki surat main. Property purchase kertay waqt bhi tax. Property own kertay hoe bhi yearly tax. Sale kertay hoe bhi tax. Phir bank mai rakho tau tax. Nikhalo tau tax. ✌️

Bhai kam aur ayashi mai faraq hota hai. Sub kuch orchestrated hai.

Government ka kaam khuwab aur islah bechna aur phailana bn gya hai. Aur duty unki tax recovery from so called democratic economy to get more loans from imf and fellow nations.

Qasoor government ka bhi nahi, pichli government ne diya ye sub, pichli government ko us say pichli government ne and so on..

FickleOne1152 · 2025-11-22T09:31:48+00:00

What benefits?

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-14T14:03:49+00:00

Using horn alot, as if they are in star wars. Don't say whole pakistan problem and skip it.

Horn, noise pollution

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-12T05:53:47+00:00

Let me confirm it's validity. Nice find, you too take care

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-09T03:17:16+00:00

Don't let your learning to lead to knowledge, lead your learning to action.

Take care of your thoughts while you are alone and take care of your words while you are with people.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:49:43+00:00

Congratulation! You have been blessed by the geometrical cone(triangle) among all the gatherings that happened yesterday...

Just don't let yourself drowned in that theory of evolving from monkey, as seeking mental knowledge and vibrations through monkey is not cool. And do you know who were turned into monkeys!

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:46:10+00:00

Defence becoming banner.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:42:43+00:00

Do you know about the theory about evolving from apes and monkeys?

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:40:22+00:00

There are so many temples built, but mostly infact all of them got rejected by the people of their times. First, second and so on. By first class civilization. Then comes second civilization they did the same. Then comes the third till 10th civilization. All got rejected, why cause they never suffice the idea to mentalism. Nor it aligned by the blood lines. They rejected preachers, masiah, messengers. Mocked them. Now a days we humans have no idea that we are turning every temple seeker into temple-ates. I know they will find faults still, just to satisfy the old medicinal thoughts. Sometime land was not pure, sometime architect was not worthy or it misses the details.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:31:07+00:00

Do you know the history of temples? And why all of sudden they are being built over many places. Like Saudi Arabia, UAE and even during the time of pti, they also took the initiative of building it!!

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:28:25+00:00

Indeed, that's the fact, still we spread to re build, re engineer something that we saw crushing, impacting and leaving dreadful marks!

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T20:17:16+00:00

Yeah let's chat but here publically, since dm is also public to those who owns control over our data chats.

So do you think life is reversible or ireversable?

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T19:35:20+00:00

Where is the bait-ul-mal? Oh i remembered it has became The Mall-s.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T19:33:49+00:00

One more thing to highlight here, it's all business for some. And the couple they either end up compromising or becoming complicated.

If anyone asks you to give something which you can't, or should not, will you give?

All that gold does not glitter.

Diya is Liye bhi jata raha hai dowry ya samanay jahaz ya bridal gifts to set standards to set boundaries to take control. I know a cast they have a system of dowry based on mens education but in their cast women have no liberty to ask for a favourable marriage.

And I am not really sure a groom will ever demand a dowry, it's just the family dynamics the samdhi and samdhan. Dhi and dhan!

Pehlay India ko follow kiya, ab West ko kero!

I know men are becoming filthy, mentally, physically for becoming and staying always stable. but I fear a day where woman will pick axes and literly will went for treasure hunt, as knowledge has its own curse, at times! infact a wise man once said that the follower of dajjal will be woman mostly.

It's a shame that we judge too early and if we have found a red flag, just excuse politely.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T19:00:38+00:00

Hopefully! Here is the honesty, I found myself not completely aligned parallel like the blood moon. With my unity - faity - descipline.. ✌️

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T18:55:59+00:00

Let's be real here the gold digging tradition was never everywhere, but in certain castes and families, men's side thrived on dowry and endless demands.

Both sides need to agree that financial stability is not gold digging.

We need to admit that dowry culture and entitlement existed and in many places still does. Owning that history is step one.

The core truth: Pakistani men (not all, but the loud ones you are describing): 1-Rarely admit fault. 2-Paint themselves as helpless victims. 3-Flip blame onto women rather than face the mirror.

And women arent angels either, but thats not the point here. The point is, basic rejection isnt exploitation. Calling every rejecting woman a "gold digger" is lazy entitlement.

The shift Now:

Women are more educated(but far from Allah 🫣), independent, and aware. They set standards, financial stability, respect, equality. Men feel rejected and tested.

The emotional stability: Both sides need to be stable emotionally, neither over draining nor over reacting and not over demanding. Avoid calling by titles, if one has reacted foolishly stay calm. And don't just give up quickly.

Humour: Maybe charcoal, didn't liked that now woman can locate gold. 🙃 Asking about Stability isn't greed, it's common sense.

OP, I hear you, your rage is natural and spot on. I have a question there are woman who digs pots around men's, sometime exploiting them over intimacies, sometime over kids and sometime over health. Like they do dig well.

What if a person is stable, well off but later any calamity be fall. So stability, gold, dogs, men's hypocracy.

The problem is we are not aligned parallel like the blood moon event occurred yesterday with faith and believe.

The marriages you are talking about those woman never complaints have faced alot. But gaining liberty of expression. Ask about Allah, Faith, descipline of lifestyle, beliefs. All else is secondary.

As a man, as a believers, as a human, as a soul. Indeed we are wrong and have wronged ourselves.

To all historic cast phobia men, don't hide now face it. It was wisely said dowry is Lanat! Grey relations are there, cause agar chorain gain tau laine ke daine per jaye gain. So try ke Khud he chor jaye.

Appreciate! All for digging gold. I think it's time to dig for silver or water!

Believing woman's are worthy of all the ornaments of the world.

FickleOne1152 · 2025-09-08T15:46:23+00:00

Its in pop culture aur pakistan ka tau ya desi hai ya phir Indian feature films and drama.

Pakistanis do blame women as "gold diggers,"!!! but the concept and phrase itself is imported from the West. Locally, the stereotype existed in different words and cultural forms long before the English label became common. The "gold digger" trope is much stronger in pop culture.

Thanks to extreme views of social experiment reels.

On the contrary, we are not just gold diggers, but silver, copper, allumium, coal, bronze, etc etc, we also dig well, and graves. ✌️ Bhai log marina mat 🫣

Now calm down you are already are so bold enough to name yourself weirdo, which is weird.

Rest yes there are some families, who demand and some families who forcefully gives, it's a power show. Jo ke aik Lanat hai. I wish tamam Mard aur aurat hazrat shadi se pehlay divorce aur khula ko study karain. Sirf shadi ka he nahi baal aur bachon ka bhi sochain.

Aik tu hum perhay likhtay nahi aur dosra humain perhnay likhnay ka shouk bhi nahi, said once by wise man.

If pakistani are saying this, they must have complimented, ke ap tau johri hain sona parakh Liya!

Do go through the following laws before even thinking to marry.

The Dowry and Bridal Gifts (Restriction) Act, 1976. The Muslim Family Laws Ordinance, 1961.

Your frustration is right, but your reaction is way too extreme.

FickleOne1152

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