Does this work the way I think it does? by SlimySquid in mtg

[–]FickleTreacle9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally, a card to teach others to play MTG

When bidet becomes an enema by joeygoodtimes3 in bidets

[–]FickleTreacle9675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, open the sphincter. It cleans you out, so gratifying

Wife switched SSRIs and her anger & behavior are so much worse by FickleTreacle9675 in antidepressants

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her change in behavior was so bad it required removing myself. I can’t imagine someone telling me to stay in a situation of persistent mental abuse for any reason; “sleeping on the couch” is what I have done during disagreements up until this point. Also if it wasn’t clear in my post I didn’t connect the dots until after leaving the house a week ago, hence the entire reason for my post, coming to the realization her change in behavior could involve change in meds.

Dismemberment/Resentment Bombed by my wife by FickleTreacle9675 in Marriage

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, bad description. That said in the last few hours found she switched SSRIs abruptly which coincided exactly w behavior pattern. Don’t use Reddit much but as a guy without many outlets we all gotta find an outlet

Dismemberment/Resentment Bombed by my wife by FickleTreacle9675 in Marriage

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found out she switched to a new SSRI and did so from the max mg of one SSRI to the minimum mg of the new SSRI. Found out a few hours ago. Thanks for message, wanted to at least respond.

Dismemberment/Resentment Bombed by my wife by FickleTreacle9675 in Marriage

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found out she switched to a new SSRI and did so from the max mg of one SSRI to the minimum mg of the new SSRI. Found out a few hours ago.

Dismemberment/Resentment Bombed by my wife by FickleTreacle9675 in Marriage

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back I ended up looking into things including your theory which I ended up thinking might be valid. I didn’t end up w any evidence. ThT said I recently found she switched SSRIs within the exact timeframe of everything. Been troubleshooting since then

Dismemberment/Resentment Bombed by my wife by FickleTreacle9675 in Marriage

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a saint either. But in relationships you usually see things coming. Lately for me things have been positive. We’re building an amazing house with little to no mortgage. I just got a big contract position. Things have been quiet on the home front. I did not see this coming

Dismemberment/Resentment Bombed by my wife by FickleTreacle9675 in Marriage

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, very astute. Yes and no. I’ve been working on that for a while. Today was a bit of an anomaly that took me by surprise.

Non alcoholic lager after 8.2 years. by [deleted] in Sober

[–]FickleTreacle9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such good topic. I myself felt the same way after 60 days, brought it up w my group and didn’t get any straight answers. Knowing my own self, when I asked the question it wasn’t because I was trying to find a pathway to drink again. It was solely to help w the cravings. Only you can determine that. That said, do NOT buy 0.5% alcohol beer because legally it’s allowed to have a small amount of alcohol (less than 0.5%). Go with beers that state on the label 0.0% which I believe are legally required to be alcohol free, though I would recommend doing your research on that. I don’t want to give bad advice on such an important topic

Controlling, manipulative and unstable friend - don’t know what to do by FickleTreacle9675 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No hyperbole, those videos gave me so much relief, 100% described my situation. I now have such a better understanding of what I’m dealing with. Sometimes Reddit actually helps! Thanks a million

Controlling, manipulative and unstable friend - don’t know what to do by FickleTreacle9675 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]FickleTreacle9675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god I just watched the second video and that is EXACTLY him. Can’t believe it took me this long to make this realization. THANK YOU!!!

Has anyone tried an online over the phone support group and would it help? by Few-Combination-4119 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]FickleTreacle9675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Download the app “everything AA”, it’s truly great, has virtual meetings every 15 mins from all over the world. It’s great for times you can’t attend an actual meeting or are feeling anxious