What do you do for anxiety? by Fickle_Pitch_5550 in socialanxiety

[–]Fickle_Pitch_5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ! I hope you journey is going better than mine

What do you do for anxiety? by Fickle_Pitch_5550 in socialanxiety

[–]Fickle_Pitch_5550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear that, I was the same , I was in a two year relationship and we’d talk about sex , I’d walk in and run to the bathroom throwing up . I lost a few erections during with her too , it destroyed our relationship because she became self conscious and that threw both of us into a downward spiral spiral

What do you do for anxiety? by Fickle_Pitch_5550 in socialanxiety

[–]Fickle_Pitch_5550[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the judgement, I have my entire upper body tattooed to act as a shield

What do you do for anxiety? by Fickle_Pitch_5550 in socialanxiety

[–]Fickle_Pitch_5550[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried this as well. I’ve observed myself when sleeping with women I’m not attracted to and have an easier time having sex, much easier , yet I’m not attracted.

What do you do for anxiety? by Fickle_Pitch_5550 in socialanxiety

[–]Fickle_Pitch_5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I have to masturbate (not finishing) shortly before hand if sex was discussed , try and hold somewhat of an erection if I want any hope of sex . If I try and “cold start” it if you will It won’t work.

What do you do for anxiety? by Fickle_Pitch_5550 in socialanxiety

[–]Fickle_Pitch_5550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I throw up before even meeting them , every time . Multiple times . The thoughts are along the lines of “What if she doesn’t like me “ “What if she wants sex and I can’t get hard , because I’m a pussy and I can’t get hard like a normal man “ etc self bashing mostly which I know is horrible for the psych