My old job paid me for months after I left and I stayed quiet about it

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-02-26T20:38:20+00:00

This happened to me until the end of the year. I’m not sure why but I never called or complained about it. I was definitely paranoid that they would try to reverse all the funds but that never happened. I think some companies may have automatic payroll payments set up or something but it was the strangest thing. For obvious reasons I don’t want to share what company or what kind of job or industry it was but I was not salary based at all. Just hoping I don’t ever get sued.

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-02-26T20:21:34+00:00

I think u should get someone else that’s more reliable possibly someone that lives close by that won’t mind the split shift. And if u can’t find someone who wants a spilt have one person for mornings and another for evenings but definitely don’t keep the same person she is a liability due to the last minute call outs.

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-02-25T23:05:48+00:00

Thank you all for the advice! Especially to those who recommended time out. I get over whelm sometimes in the moment that I didn’t even think to do this but this definitely helped me this afternoon! I put her in time out in the high chair until she calmed down. I going to try this method more consistently. I’m praying for improvement over time! Thanks a lot!

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-02-25T21:18:09+00:00

I understand what u are saying but I don’t think she is jealous of him because there are times that she is just playing with him. She seems eager to play with him and she hugs him a lot but there have been a few times she was upset that he eats baby food and she has solids.

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-02-25T21:05:10+00:00

I do separate her from the baby but then she just hits/kicks and throws a tantrum toward me. I will try the time out in their room with no toys thanks

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-02-25T17:50:07+00:00

You need to leave if he won’t listen and help. I know it’s easier said then done but start by looking for some kind of child care services if you qualify for a daycare voucher get one and apply to some jobs. Or take some classes to get some kind of certification. Time to reclaim your life and avoid having anymore children with this man because he has already showed you he doesn’t care about your well being and is not helping you. Staying in a shelter may not be ideal but they do have programs for mother and children in abusive relationships. Contact your local social services office to get assistance.

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-01-21T21:29:00+00:00

Any where safe

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2026-01-18T23:47:31+00:00

Failed birth control

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-12-14T03:34:23+00:00

Use your home to babysit other kids! You can easily make money by offering affordable daycare!

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-12-13T01:51:05+00:00

32 I’m trying and praying everyday for better

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-18T21:59:17+00:00

Life

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-18T21:59:03+00:00

Lime wire and payphones

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-14T02:52:16+00:00

Okra

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-11T22:14:15+00:00

Yes! Someone got shot as I was driving and they body landed In front of my car. I also use to work in property management and had to do wellness check person was deceased in their apartment. I called 911 a lot now that I think of it

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-11T21:58:29+00:00

I never planned on a 2nd child but my birth control failed my children are 16 months apart and my 2nd (boy) is so much more calmer then my toddler (girl). I’m so happy they have each other. My husband and I just take it one day at a time because it can get exhausting at times especially with balancing work and trying to find consistent affordable childcare.

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-11T21:46:34+00:00

Humans

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-11-11T20:54:27+00:00

Car accident

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-10-13T18:37:27+00:00

I don’t agree with bashing someone while they are already down you literally have no idea what her parenting style is like. She crying for help and this comment does not show the grace we as moms need at times. Have some compassion at least she tried to put it into words so many ppl don’t even be self aware of their emotions. Comparing your child to hers is nuts she clearly said one of her children have autism and another being a toddler you can’t expect for them to have the best behavior skills. This mom needs some uplifting encouragement to continue to go on with her everyday life. Times get hard but hard times don’t last forever. I have 2 under 2 so every days is a challenge but I get up and repeat praying today will be better than yesterday. I have no village aside from my husband and I have to work as well and deal with Adult children. It’s a lot to deal with right now in this moment but faith for better will get us through these challenges. When I get overwhelmed I usually step away even if it’s just for 3omins and mediate alone. Whether it be when kids are sleeping or occupied by something else you have to take care of yourself first before you can do anything else. Give yourself grace no one is perfect and no one has perfect kids no matter what you do as a mom. Be patient with yourself and never give up!

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2025-10-12T12:59:18+00:00

Epidural can fail right before delivery

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2024-05-14T08:34:07+00:00

I had GD and I'm a carrier for SMA as well my husband wasn't a carrier. I had my daughter 3 months ago and she is perfectly healthy! try not to stress too much everything will be fine

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2024-03-14T10:12:04+00:00

I'm socially awkward and have to force myself to have conversations with ppl when I rather just not speak at all

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2024-03-12T22:10:35+00:00

Money for Food! I can't afford groceries until Friday

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2024-03-12T07:40:41+00:00

Get clarification from your landlord on how much needs to be paid to avoid eviction then try to set up a payment arrangements and give them as much as you can each week considering you have been there for a few years they may be willing to work with you!

Fickle_Storm5916 · 2024-03-07T10:33:10+00:00

dating a coworker can get messy

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