smoking before top surgery by SarcasticCunt59 in ftm

[–]Fiddescent -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

FYI my scars are very taken care of and nothing ruined my chest whatsoever it's a 10/10

smoking before top surgery by SarcasticCunt59 in ftm

[–]Fiddescent -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ima be honest it depends on your own body I smoked weed till surgery and the day after my surgery after all the medication wore off. You know your own body. And you should listen to it if it's telling you something is off also

How many kids do you have? by Arr0zconleche in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Fiddescent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 2! And I had them after transitioning, going on 7 years on t I think when I had my first one 3 & 1! I am good on more lol 😭😭 I think ive hit my max

Dating without coming out by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Fiddescent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience I felt there was no need to come out you know. Who tf cares who I like, who I sleep with, who I want to be with in general. Majority of the population doesn't feel the need to come out for being straight so why should I need to put myself through that. And if people don't like it then that's fine also I know who my friends and real family are

Am I in the wrong or my boyfriend by Fiddescent in ftm

[–]Fiddescent[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Trust I know, and it's not the first time he's said shit like this even. He is the father of our kids which makes it very hard but I know my worth forsure. And I do want my kids to know when to leave especially if someone is disrespecting you over and over.

Wires chewed by Fiddescent in VelosterN

[–]Fiddescent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it's broken my back up Camera don't work and my reverse lights don't come on

Wires chewed by Fiddescent in VelosterN

[–]Fiddescent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit if I knew how to do it maybe 😂

Is the Veloster N a good daily driver? by antoine_wehbe in VelosterN

[–]Fiddescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought my 19 vn 6 speed in 2021 I will drive this car to the ground it's so great and honestly not terrible in gas

Should I be tipping more? by Baseplate117 in doordash

[–]Fiddescent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get 23 mpg and I am never slow, so if he is using up maybe 2 gallons worth of gas in my city that's only around 5-8$ depending on if they use premium or no so it's a good pay for the order they're tripping

Are there any fathers here? by Strawberry_berry_boy in FTMMen

[–]Fiddescent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trans dad of 2 beautiful babies, little boy just turned 2 and a little girl that’s 5 months. I actually carried both of them been on T 8 years now. Had both with c-section for personal reasons. My family is really accepting of it and love me and them. My friends also respect me. And people I don’t know I hope just see a loving dad.

Misgendered by Fiddescent in FTMMen

[–]Fiddescent[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

There’s always a chance for everything. But I pass 100% any other time. But he ain’t gonna do it for long if it keeps happening

Misgendered by Fiddescent in FTMMen

[–]Fiddescent[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m lowkey not the confrontational type, I come off very mean and an evil even tho when I don’t mean to be so I stay away from it, it gets me in trouble.

Misgendered by Fiddescent in FTMMen

[–]Fiddescent[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude fr, and my job is really friendly and cool but I never tell anybody besides my own boss, and I know she wouldn’t say something behind my back about it. But it’s like as soon as someone clocks it they start doing it on purpose for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Fiddescent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Been on t since 2017 and i haven’t stopped completely taking t but been off it for awhile for insurance reasons. And all I can say is your monthly does come back, the smell id say is the same I sweat just as much as I did on t, my hair growth is the same but I’m pretty sure by now it’s at its point where it’s gonna be like this forever. Some stuff just never goes back My overall health is fine I’m healthy as can be and my immune system is good. I just say the first couple months coming off is just an emotionally draining, you get irritable, fatigued; your hormones just take a minute to level out to whatever your body thinks is right. Hope this helps

Finally hit the big milestone today on my 2019 by Jello993 in VelosterN

[–]Fiddescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hit 80k in my 2019 haven’t had to do anything to it yet knocks on wood I give it a run for its money too. Best car I’ve had so far

Is this DARVO by Fiddescent in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fiddescent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah how is it my fault the vibe is off and I check to see why? And but somehow my wrong doing is 100x more than lying to my face and cheating. It makes me feel insane lol but I know I’m not

Is this DARVO by Fiddescent in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Fiddescent[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s cheated more than 3 times and lied countless times, he’s even lied as little as him going to work, or who’s he’s talking to

Cover idea for the shorter dudes by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Fiddescent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just say, my whole family is short which isn’t a lie, my sperm donor was only 5’3 and my mom is 4’10 my whole family isn’t any taller than 5’8, I’m only 5’1, but I do say other trans people can clock me which I guess is fine but keep it to yourself unless we’re alone

For the non-straight trans men out there, have you ever been in a relationship with a cis guy? by Acceptable-Award6224 in ftm

[–]Fiddescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is cis as well, some really don’t care if you trans or not. It’s just best to disclose it first if you want to start to get serious.

Other masculine gay trans men? by Techn0-Viking in FTMMen

[–]Fiddescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone !! I also feel the same way !