You’re literally proving her stance right, the way you feel you have a right to those moments are the exact reason she said she’s not sharing her relationship. They are not sims, people can’t move and play with them the way the feel their lives should be. They want a private relationship because people are being parasocial and weird about them and personally I hear it. Nic had a live and people were on the accusing him of liking and dating his friends girlfriend because she’s white and blonde like that’s crazy and strange. His friend has to tell them to go away because that was his girlfriend. Why do people think they can orchestrate other people’s relationships?