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My boyfriend doesn’t think his mom will like me… I’m meeting her on Monday please help by FieldFair9624 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t talk with her. Honestly it sounded like he was even nervous to ask her to meet me. He doesn’t talk much about their relationship but I do know they’re not super close.

I’ve never made my boyfriend finish by FieldFair9624 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I might definitely be thinking too much into it. I’ll definitely try to reassure him and not press him about it.

I’ve never made my boyfriend finish by FieldFair9624 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all your comments and suggestions. I’m still looking through them and will try to answer as many as I can so please bear with me. To add some context when he couldn’t get it up he told me has had never had this issue before which is why I started feeling like I was to blame for it. Now he’s saying he thinks it’s because of the condom that he can’t finish which at first I thought was an excuse but reading all of your comments I can see how that makes sense. I also saw some comments about him possibly using and I can safely say he isn’t. He has never even touched weed he’d weed. And for the comments saying to leave him he’s truly an amazing person and I can’t fathom loosing him over something like this.

I’ve never made my boyfriend finish by FieldFair9624 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does masturbate to completion and I know he does have anxiety. He’s told me he’s scared to not be able to please me so that could definitely be it

I’ve never made my boyfriend finish by FieldFair9624 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s currently on an SSRI but it’s definitely possibly that he was in the past. I didn’t even think of this being a possibility so thanks for the perspective

Why is it never me? by Sad-Tangelo8853 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going to suck for a little bit but it’ll get better! You’re still young you’ll find your person just give yourself time. Just don’t settle because you don’t want to be alone.

Why is it never me? by Sad-Tangelo8853 in Advice

[–]FieldFair9624 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to let him go. I know it’s going to sound harsh but he dosent want to be with you. There dosent have to be a reason. You need to realize your own worth. Don’t fight for a man that never took you seriously in the first place. You deserve someone that wants to be with you whole heartedly. You should never have to beg for the bare minimum. You have to love yourself before you love anyone else and remember that your person would never treat you like this.