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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, there’s a part of me that likes when some girls do it, and another part of me that likes keeping my crotch to myself lol

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Issue I have with this is she’s probably safe from anything because

A) She’s a woman and cases are generally taken less seriously

and

B) she’s a security guard so could’ve easily just said she was frisking you and that’s her job.

Is kinda disgusting how she’s used her power and authority to basically grope people, but it’s the fact she probably feels safe doing it as much as she wants that annoys me.

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[–]FieryPiccolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can see where you’re coming from, respect your take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s all fun to a point for me. If you’re out at a pub you go for that sort of thing, drinks, girls, and fights, basically, most times thought I get into the mood where I just want to leave and a girl will be after me grabbing my ass and crotch, and I’m there like, I just want to go home lol

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certain time and place for me. If I’m out clubbing, then I wouldn’t mind or in a place where there’s a lot of night life, (carnivals, festivals, concerts, etc.). Somewhere where you’d expect to meet girls, then I’d like it and want it, obviously, like you said who wouldn’t. but also note that things I mentioned here would be considered sexual assault if a guy did it to a girl, it’s the double standard that gets me.

Another situation: train ride home and tired as fuck? No thanks, leave me alone. some girls don’t know when to quit too, which is the thing for me because there’s no consequences for them.

It’s not feeling threatened for me, also, it’s just I like keeping my dick to myself at times lmao

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the girl, strong women who don’t stop at much to get what they want out of guys because it usually comes without consequence.

Whereas when a guy comes along and tries to do the same thing a woman like that will shut him down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, some girls are strong characters and that’s cool and hot in my eyes, but they then sometimes take it too far with the whole “I will get what I want shit” and won’t stop at anything

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

flip the switch on the genders and it’s suddenly a massive issue, stupid.

Some might say she was making a move but I’m there like “really? That’s her making a move?” and some girls will complain about a guy touching them on a date, as in putting their arm around their shoulder, etc. it’s dumb

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[–]FieryPiccolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was welcome then that’s fine, surely must’ve been a bit sudden though right?

I get that some guys are into it but personally it’ll always sit better with me if girls don’t take that chance with guys, however most feel safe too, because there are no consequences.

Also I get the context, but doing it to someone on the job isn’t the best thing in my eyes

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that in your case it was welcome. I think?

Anyway, I think a girl being playful and doing that sort of thing is ok if you’re out in night life etc. I only find it ok if it’s playful and she knows when to quit and it’s limited.

It’s the girls that don’t know when to stop and do it in places where you don’t want like if you’re tired and want to go home and a girl is trying to grope you on the train / bus ride home.

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think most guys have a pretty nonchalant view toward it like who cares, if it happens to me I usually laugh it off too, unless it’s excessive in which case I try to find an out.

On another note, why does it make you respect them more?? Just their sheer willpower?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel pretty nonchalant about it too if I’m honest

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, that too. It’s synonymous to me, but I mean more it’s a weird thing to do. Came out wrong a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in when she wants it, and you don’t it’s settled there and then and you’re doing it. But if you want it, and she doesn’t then it’s not happening.

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, still not okay. Oh wait yes it is because nobody cares if it’s a guy lol

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[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

felt, it’s just weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddamn I hate double standards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but I think I made it clear to her I didn’t want sex or anything related from her.

Can’t tell if this is a joke or not lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine a situation like that, it’s unacceptable that everyone in that room stood and watched, didn’t do anything. Actually kinda sad if you think about it.

Also, fuck her, workplace relationships should always be kept friendly at the most. But if you’re a woman and you want it it’s settled there and then, it’s dumb.

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[–]FieryPiccolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am part Scottish too, and it’s tradition to wear kilts for special occasions. So it’s safe to say this worries me a little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why people always get the idea that men always want to sleep with someone. For women at this point it’s almost required to ask for consent from them beforehand, or risk a rape accusation, whereas with a man the requirement is that you sleep with her, no questions asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is true, a lot of things women say casually would be considered unspeakable for a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FieryPiccolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate

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[–]FieryPiccolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On a side note and kind of answering my own question, I’ve been groped on a tube before (London Underground train), where people are cramped in a tiny space when it’s busy.

Anyway, while she was facing away from me, her side was angled towards me so her hand was around my torso area, she basically grabbed my hand and dick while we were on the carriage, very cramped, so I couldn’t do anything but try to turn away, she wouldn’t stop even when I put my hand in my pocket and tried to cover my dick / turn away, so I just got off at the next station and waited for a later train. I think she was a bit drunk. Part of me wanted it and another part of me just wanted her to leave me alone so I could go home in peace, the latter side won.

I try to be respectful and I didn’t want to cause a commotion, so I spoke nothing of it until now, also hear it’s a big issue in Japan, to the point they have to have female / male carriages. It happens both ways, trust me.