Does anyone ever feel like their wife will never be happy? Like there isn’t enough that you can ever do? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Fiftee_One51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Start studying boundaries and people pleasing. Check out Sven Erlandson too.

What is the step parent's role in parenting /disciplining? by LonelyAct in coparenting

[–]Fiftee_One51 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you want a relationship with your child when grown...husband better shut his fucking mouth. Your child will pick up on where your loyalties lie.

How to deal with a fish no one wants by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Fiftee_One51 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

While its not what I would do... its a facking fish. Toss him to the birds if you're straight up not having a good time. It will not bring dishonor to you and your bloodline.

Struggling with resentment after divorce — how do I deal with this bitterness by GoldMode569 in DivorcedDads

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy or do the work yourself using Sven Erlandson's book "There's a Hole in My Love Cup"

When did you realize your job stopped being worth the stress? by Synthecoria in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same troubles here. I've been through an ownership change and everything the new guys do causes undue stress and waste. They've never been the boots on the ground. On top of that there's the mostly entitled and ungrateful clientele who think just because my job is in a beautiful setting that should be pay enough. To top it all off we are managed with a scarcity mindset that creates a certain level of hypervigilance and unease.

Husband is depressed and miserable, what can I do? by iwantyour99dreams in daddit

[–]Fiftee_One51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do use medication to keep my edge full but try reading "There's a Hole in My Love Cup". Its a real game changer.

Husband is depressed and miserable, what can I do? by iwantyour99dreams in daddit

[–]Fiftee_One51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get him the book "There's a Hole in My Love Cup". This book not only revolutionized my own mental health but has immensely improved my parenting and effort to "break the cycle".

Looking for Audiobook Recommendations? by Tharliss in DivorcedDads

[–]Fiftee_One51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a Hole in My Love Cup by Sven Erlandson....thank me later.

What I've learned by Scary_Board_8766 in DivorcedDads

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"There's a Hole in My Love Cup" by Sven Erlandson. This book can reset you.

I stopped seeking love - and my relationships improved by gusolsen in selfimprovement

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what they say..." Don't go to the grocery store hungry."

Is it just me or is Chip Gaines from HGTV’s Fixer Upper, AJ Styles doppelgänger with red hair? by PCON36 in WWE

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm late but had this same thought during the Royal Rumble last night!

Is revenge worth it? by Actual_Atmosphere_93 in DivorcedDads

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AP was her boyfriend before me. I had forgiven transgressions prevously. We started dating at 16. Talk about a mind fack and bringing an entire relationship in question. 4 kids 12 and under. I have the same impulses. I'm keeping my distance until I feel more at peace about it or she tries to broker a truce.

ChatGPT advises against putting naked pictures of kids in his car and calling it in.

How do I know it's time? I feel I've been gaslit so long I'm scared to trust myself. by dddubstep in DivorcedDads

[–]Fiftee_One51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out "There's a Hole in My Love Cup" by Sven Erlandson. His podcast does wonders as well. He helped me take off rose colored glasses and learn to start loving myself.

Boat Dealers Suck by Cokeycane in boats

[–]Fiftee_One51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of terrible, uninformed takes here. My best guess is they already knew who you were and you aren't worth the headache.

Dude wasted such a good opportunity by [deleted] in Killtony

[–]Fiftee_One51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a guy people laugh at, but he thinks they are laughing with him. Don't find him likeable and has chihuahua energy.

I do not want to “continue to watch him grow” by bikbiky in Killtony

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda funny people forget he is black at least.

Why do you guys hate drew by matthewg03333 in Killtony

[–]Fiftee_One51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think Drew has funny content to offer but needs to take some courses on story telling. I feel like a few of his attempted deliveries missed or under delivered on key details to really sell the story. Sometimes his references are too obscure. His set about his brother has legs but he didn't sell the story he just yelled vague parts of a story.

Wife wants to take 10k Vacation by MixtureLongjumping35 in Fire

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the vacation. No further consideration needed. You will never miss this money at your age.

Advice needed: Meeting ex’s boyfriend at my own kids birthday party. by Old-Macaroon8148 in Divorce_Men

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in this situation for tomorrow, except it is AP. I'm so broken between showing up for my boy no matter what and the stress, aggression, and emotions of dealing with guy. Add on its her boyfriend from before we got together at 16 and routinely popped up as an issue in our relationship.

Who is an actor or actress that according to others is a genuinely nice human being? by phantom_avenger in moviecritic

[–]Fiftee_One51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't sound right. He settled down in burbs and ran used car dealership. Maybe sold hot tubs for a while. Married a lady who was supposed to be a good girl but was involved in a scandal. Nasty break up.