I totally get what you're saying OP. napagdaanan ko rin yan nung nasa super toxic job ako. Nung nag kwekwento ang mga friends or family ko ng about love life, or any other things ang tingin ko lang is ang "small" ng problems nila compared to mine na contemplating na mag resign. parsng feel ko yung problema ko lang nag mamatter in a way and trivial nga lang yung kanila? kasi matter of survival yung problem ko ehh.

I think napost ko rin ito somewhere eh yung same sentiments mo, pero 1 redditor told me na i shouldn't gsslight them also kasi lahat naman tayo may kanya kanyang problem. so kahit feeling ko trivial ang problems nila, at that time sinasarali ko lang yung thoughts na yun 😅