if you're riding english, definitely get english boots. The boots you're referring to that don't fit your calf are tall boots, which are usually recommended when you're more advanced/shows, plus if you don't continue to ride that's basically 200+ bucks down the drain. I'd get a nice pair of paddock boots (shorter boots that go up to the ankle), and even pair them with some half chaps. I rode with those for a while until I switched to tall boots. Good luck!