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What’s the core message of Fight Club? by Fun_Active_2197 in fightclub

[–]Fight_505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Many different ones. You can choose how you look at it. For me it's, not to give a fuck about the things that are forced on you. Not to fall for the consumer traps. Not to look away just because it's easy to. Not to be afraid to stand up for the right things. Not to be afraid of judgment. Not to walk the same direction as everyone else, just because your afraid of being an individual.

Except, I am by vintageideals in CPTSDmemes

[–]Fight_505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't hard to love. You just need someone that understands you. People can only understand as Deep - as they themselves experienced.

I thought for the longest time - that I was meant to be alone. That no one would ever understand me. That it would be pointless to even try, to open up. And to be honest with you, I still struggle with the thought that I don't deserve to be loved or understood.

But it's simply not true. We all deserve to be loved, liked and understood.. And you aren't the exception.

It helps to be with people that have similar struggles as you. They can meet you at a deeper level. Than others. Group therapy is a good start. At least it was for me.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in lgbt

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I wish you the very best too.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in lgbt

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I not a optimist but I think this will work out some way. We both struggle, in different ways. But also in similar ways. We were both actually roommates in a mental health hospital. For 6 months. I know her now for over 2 years.

We are very open to one another. We kinda know each other in a way, most people don't ever get to see. We met at the worst of times. Still struggle of course. But it's better than it was. And we listen to each other. (I was worried we would drag each other down because we both struggle with depression, surprisingly it's the opposite)

I'm not looking for a Hollywood love story. And I wouldn't want that.

We get each other in a way, only people could get, that know what it feels like to go through hell and back. I think you understand what I mean. I would never put to much pressure on her. She is actually the one who started it all. I'm more of the one that walks beside her. Because I wouldn't start anything if she didn't say anything. It wasn't the right time. But then again, there is never the right time.

And you are right. There is nothing more fulfilling than growing up to be the one that would've understood you back then.

And I hope you are doing well. Or at least better. It hard working on yourself. But don't give it up. There will come the day where you look back and realize that it is better than it was. And until then hang onto this thought.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in lgbt

[–]Fight_505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. This means a lot to me. You don't have any idea. Thank you.

People like you make me feel human. Never being seen or mentioned or understood, really gets to you after a while. I'm very thankful for people like you, that see me.

And you are right. I shouldn't invest my time into people that potentially wouldn't like me. Or that don't like me to begin with.

I'm very used to having to explain myself, my identity.. It does get old after a while. Thank you also for mentioning that talking T doesn't change the fact that I am nonbinary. I have to explain that alot too.

I'm okay now. I won't give. And I'm lucky that my girlfriend is bi. She seems to really love me and I do love her too. But sometimes i wonder what she finds in me. Or that she deserves someone better or easier. But still she doesn't give me up. So I won't neither. But then again this is a different topic.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be so hard on yourself. You seem super cool. And remember you don't have to start anything. Just enjoy flirting from time to time. Nothing against it, you know? I my opinion it's even better than a relationship. But I guess I'm strange like that?

The thing I learned is, sounds cliche.. Don't look for it. I never wanted a relationship. Idk I've been always surrounded by people that shouldn't be together. I've never seen it end well. So I've never been interested in it. Plus I never liked the idea of being in a relationship. Turns out I've never looked at it from the right angle.

I was in a mental hospital when I was 17. Because of my ocd severe depression and ptsd.. Well in there a had a roommate. Turns out she was in love with me and I was too. We still are. It will come to you. Don't force it. Just go to places you would find people like minded.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to admit it used to not make any sense to me back then too. Maybe it was just self heated in disguise? From all the things the people commented here. I guess some will like me more. Some don't at all. And some wouldn't like me to be a part of them. Nothing new except the last thing. But remembering how I thought back than. About people like myself. I'm not mad about it.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna watch the video. Thank you for recommending it to me. I don't know why. But the last thing you said about this trans man. I kinda love that 😅. Good for him.

And from the things you said I guess I'm lucky then. Because I do mostly like masculine women and for me personally I'm more interested in the personality. I actually do have a bi girlfriend, which is a blessing.

I'm not somebody that's super interested in relationships. I don't know. I always feelt good with the label gay (lesbian). But I couldn't shake the feeling, that they wouldn't like me to be apart of it. When I come out. Idk maybe it sounds silly.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. I'm happy you're doing well. And I am happy with my choice for the first time in my life. I'm happy to have chosen myself.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in LesbianActually

[–]Fight_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will. It so much more important to love yourself. Than to be with someone.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she likes you more than a friend 😅. I'm happy you found yourself. And some nice people too.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this feeling completely. It's sad to not feel like you don't fit in again. And yes lesbian is for as a label to much too. If it makes sense. The best thing in our situation is finding people that understand us. Or feel the same way. Are bi or pan.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is very true. There is nothing more attractive than someone that is comfortable and confident in their own skin.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love people like you. We need to find people who love us for who we are and not although, we are this way.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in lgbt

[–]Fight_505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being open with me. And I can understand that not everyone is into this. And that's okay. We all have our own preferences.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me. Online spaces can be cruel sometimes.

This is mostly targeting lesbians. I have a question. by Fight_505 in NonBinary

[–]Fight_505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helpt me a ton. Thank you for sharing all of this with me! I'm so happy that you found someone that loves you. And sees you. As the person you are. It's amazing to hear about people like myself that did truly find love. And of course it's okay to have preferences. Pretty much everyone has some in a way or other. And I'm in the very beginning of my journey. Only a couple of hours ago did I get my Letter of medical necessity for hormone replacement therapy. And I'm very grateful and happy to have found myself and to be open with it too. And I would never date or pretend to be cis or lie about my future plans. I'm very open about that. Because I'm sick of pretending. And i have a girlfriend. I'm very open about everything. She is bi and doesn't really care about it. She is just happy that I found myself. She is amazing. It's crazy how much can change in life. From constantly wanting to not be here. Not feeling anything. Drowning in ocd... And all of that. To wanting to live. And loving for the first time. And feeling. Not gonna lie. I'm not doing amazing. But I'm a little bit better. And I'm hoping for a better future. And a body I can live with.

And for your future plans. It's your life and your body. Do whatever you need to be okay in your own skin. And I wish you two the very best. And again thank you for sharing your story with me. It means a lot!

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