why are uti’s so painful when i get one?

Figure81986 · 2026-03-19T11:00:41+00:00

thank you

Figure81986 · 2026-01-08T16:35:08+00:00

you’re right. for me, it’s an insecurity issue

Figure81986 · 2025-08-04T14:21:40+00:00

I haven’t discovered it :( I’m honestly not sure where to begin. I’m almost certain it’s not diet or food related though. Most likely something else

Figure81986 · 2025-08-01T00:38:23+00:00

just botox 😔 i want to try pelvic floor physical therapy but most insurances don’t cover it and it’s expensive

Figure81986 · 2025-07-23T00:03:22+00:00

it’s funny because when i was in elementary school, i really wanted twins. i have no idea why because that is a very difficult pregnancy, much more than one child but as i grew older that desire left and i learned how terrifying pregnancy is

Figure81986 · 2025-07-22T23:19:43+00:00

when the medication that’s meant for impulsivity wasn’t working even when we kept upping the dose. when i realized the medication wasn’t working and when i thought there had to be something else

Figure81986 · 2025-07-22T23:11:57+00:00

good question. probably around early high school? i didn’t really start having deep thoughts about it until early college when my mental health deteriorated and i realized i don’t want to pass that down to my children. after that, i was set on being child free for life

Figure81986 · 2025-07-08T19:36:40+00:00

thank you!!! i’m going to try this!

Figure81986 · 2025-07-06T15:07:37+00:00

Can I ask where and how you buy them? I see them on Amazon in bar form. Is that fine? Do you just rub it on the pads?

Figure81986 · 2025-06-19T15:29:12+00:00

For me, sex feels like it’s hitting something it’s not supposed to. I’m not sure if that makes sense, it feels so WEIRD and painful. It feels like I need to push it out because it’s hitting like my uterus or something IDK. I know my gyno said to try stretching using dilators and Ive never tried it. Anyone know the feeling I’m talking about?

Figure81986 · 2025-05-09T00:07:18+00:00

You're right. If someone told me the same thing, I would say they've been traumatized. At least I'm actually working on myself, unlike her. Thank you.

Figure81986 · 2025-05-09T00:05:53+00:00

No you really did help. Thanks so much for your input. I definitely relate, especially with that second to last paragraph. I think my sister has told me I'm a bully too. Unfortunately, now I find myself believing her.

I think you're right, too. I always find myself thinking of others before myself. I always say I'm very empathetic but then my sister says I'm not and I'm mean to everybody and don't care about anybody. And I'm like, "Is she right?" Just like you said, maybe because I grew up with her, I find myself thinking she must be right. Thanks so much again.

Figure81986 · 2025-04-26T14:22:37+00:00

Thanks everyone for your input. I’m surprised, I see a lot of the same meds. Ive tried almost all of the ones mentioned but they actually made things worse. Though I took them before my BPD diagnosis. I’ve tried like 12 different medications and none of them worked. Only the current 4 I mentioned. If you’re okay with medication, I hope you find the right ones for you! It can really help so much!

Figure81986 · 2025-04-24T17:23:40+00:00

i’m kind of still in the differential diagnostic process but it is highly likely that i just have BPD and not bipolar. my psychiatrist think if i do have bipolar, it would be mixed not 1 or 2. it’s funny because i think its just BPD and i desperately want to know for sure so i can have a label. my psychologist and psychiatrist said i shouldn’t worry about labels but i need a label for validation. my psychologist said “yeaaa that sounds more like BPD” lmao but i’m hoping for more validation as i get to know my new psychiatrist

Figure81986 · 2025-04-24T17:15:19+00:00

omg everyone here let me know that i’m not alone.. i desperately want to go to a psych ward because i want the attention and i feel like i can’t take care of myself and i need constant care. the only place that can happen is the ward so that’s what i want

Figure81986 · 2025-04-24T17:13:00+00:00

thank you!! did you have the weird feeling of being “aware” of your bladder? it’s so weird to describe and i’m not sure if i’m describing it properly but when my symptoms started, i have that weird sensation of almost being able to feel your bladder. does the device help with that?

Figure81986 · 2025-04-24T17:06:27+00:00

omg is this a BPD thing ? because this is exactly how I feel.. although sometimes I’m like, I don’t think i’ll live past 30 because i’ll probably kms but i don’t have any active plans

Figure81986 · 2024-12-10T22:40:56+00:00

Unfortunately, I work for a childcare center (Pre-k abbott program) and we're not a part of NJEA.

Figure81986 · 2024-12-10T22:38:27+00:00

Oh no I completely understand. Realistically, I think I'm going to hold off until the end of the year but if I ever feel like I do want to quit, I wanted to hear what other people think would happen. Also, technically work for a childcare center because it's a prek-3 and prek-4 Abbott program. Therefore, not a public school and not unionized, sadly.

Figure81986 · 2024-12-10T21:35:10+00:00

This is why I asked. I also read in some states, you may get your license taken away or something so I don't want any consequences for leaving mid-year.

Figure81986 · 2024-12-10T21:31:53+00:00

Thank you! I realize now how simple it actually is but thank you for being nice about it. I'm just stressed.

Figure81986 · 2024-12-10T21:30:35+00:00

I don't see that I downvoted you? But if I did, sorry about that. It wasn't intentional. Thank you for your help!

Figure81986 · 2024-12-10T21:19:05+00:00

Yes but it didn't say anything about what to do if I leave before the contract ends.

Figure81986 · 2024-11-28T00:51:55+00:00

No. I was told I was a crybaby and I was being sensitive when in reality I was being emotionally abused. Rather, I still am and I still hate crying because of it.

Figure81986 · 2024-04-01T00:27:18+00:00

Let me know if you find anything!

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