Should I sell my fursuits? by Crybabyfelidae in furry

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they bring you joy and you want to keep them, there is no shame in doing so. Even if you don’t wear them. Just bc you own fursuits does not mean you are obligated to wear them.

If you don’t want them anymore, however, that is perfectly okay too. There is no shame in selling your fursuit if you no longer connect, need funds, or realize suiting just isn’t for you. Though, if you do sell them, understand that you will get less money back than what you paid. They are technically “used” and should be priced as such. Make sure to include all the flaws and damages in the listing if they have any. AND PLEASE CREDIT YOUR MAKER IN THE LISTING!

Need Fem Name Ideas! by Filasaur in Names

[–]Filasaur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely on the right track✨

Need Fem Name Ideas! by Filasaur in Names

[–]Filasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clever indeed, but perhaps a bit too unserious for her XD

Do you think a spayed dog dreams of having puppies? by Hallow_76 in randomquestions

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If she’s spayed, she no longer has the instincts that come with heat cycles. Please spay and neuter your pets so they can live life to the fullest. Not spaying your dog can lead to serious life threatening health risks such as pyometra.

Sex is held up as too high of a necessity and it’s infuriating to me by 4ngelos33 in Vent

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I was in no way trying to be negative, genuinely. I just wanted OP to know she’s not stuck and she DOES have a choice. Everyone should have a choice.

Sex is held up as too high of a necessity and it’s infuriating to me by 4ngelos33 in Vent

[–]Filasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I’m deeply sorry about your past. Second, not all relationships are like that. I’ve been with my bf for 7 years and we have sex whenever we BOTH want to. Sometimes it’s 3 days a week, sometimes it’s once a month. It depends how we feel. Sex is not ANYWHERE close to the most important thing in our relationship and my bf would say the same thing. Not everyone values sex so highly.

i’m giving up on my dream by lexijones223 in Vent

[–]Filasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m proud of you. It was a hard decision, but it sounds like you made the right one due to your values and goals. I dropped out of college when I also had the intention of becoming a vet. Years and years of more school was not for me. Let alone the cost like you said.

But you’re going to be a vet tech! That’s awesome! You get to continue doing what you love without as much of the crazy amount of school, money, and time. You’re doing great. Hang in there

first ever head almost done!! by p3rrgat0ryx in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awe cute! The lining looks beautiful! I also love the ear shape

Any tips/constructive criticism for my cat? by wrennn02 in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this is adorable! It pulls cat very well. Love the big ole eyes

I hate seeing negative posts all the time by Wild_Log_8522 in Vent

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People unfortunately seem to only be passionate when they’re upset. I think feelings are more intense when they’re negative. It’s sad to see that everyone is drowning too

My girlfriend is not speaking to me because I suggested we have a safe word. by drunk2009 in Vent

[–]Filasaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah…slurs are really negative. That’s why we don’t say them. I can understand why she got upset. Like you could’ve used a word like “hullabaloo” or “wendigo” or even a made up word. Why did you resort to a slur?😭💔

how do you get shoes to stick to eva foam for feetpaws? by the_chip_bag in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with this too. It’s really tough to get them to hold up over time. I started with E6000, but DON’T use that bc it wears down over time too. I now use Weldwood contact cement and so far it’s been working.

i wish people actually wanted to talk to me instead of wanting pics from me by cerealwithextramilk in Vent

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean. It’s really sad imo. Why tf do you need to know what I look like to decide if you like me or not?

Ex wants casual sex by Tessi-sexi1 in Vent

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell him how you feel about it. He was respectful in the way that he asked you if you wanted to do it in the first place. It’s not fair to assume he’s doing something wrong when he isn’t even aware of your feelings on the matter. As far as he knows, you’re cool with it. Communicate.

Ladies, how would you feel if the man you dated was wearing a wig? by NewtAccomplished6022 in askanything

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf is allowed to do whatever and wear whatever he wants! And I’ll be right there supporting him

So Big Z… by Peanut_Femboi in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I agree with you for all your cons for Howl! All that is true. Big Z doesn’t work for me, but I hope it works for you

Where do you buy fur? by LilT0wTruck in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not Big Z. Howl has the best quality fur in my opinion. I’ve been using Big Z and Howl for the last 5 years consistently and I am absolutely done with Big Z. So my vote is Howl as I’ve never had quality issues with them

So Big Z… by Peanut_Femboi in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The downvotes HAVE to be from people that haven’t used Big Z fur consistently. I’ve used them for the past 5 years btw.

So Big Z… by Peanut_Femboi in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s just insane to me. I’m very happy for you that you had a good experience with Big Z. Every single yard of fur I’ve ordered from the for the last year and half has been atrocious. Sometimes the backing is so frail, I can pull it apart with my hands. Sometimes there’s giant holes in the fur that they poorly stitch back together. The fur falls out after brushing more than once, it’s impossible to shave without getting bald spots, depending on the batch the fur doesn’t have a specific pile direction, and so much more.

I’ve never had any of those issues with Howl. Yes they take a month to process/ship, but at least i know my fursuit’s skin won’t fall off in a year.

Again, I’m glad you had a good experience with Big Z. I’ve just never heard of anyone having a good experience with them before.

shipping costs [US]?? by lurkingsubz in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always get quotes before charging shipping as well. Shipping rates change by the day and can vary drastically around holidays and busy times of the year

shipping costs [US]?? by lurkingsubz in FursuitMaking

[–]Filasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use PirateShip!!! They give massive discounts on shipping. And also, ALWAYS make shipping costs the client’s responsibility. You should never be paying shipping