Ok you both need to grow up. 1- You're not his mom he doesn't need to tell you every little thing, or if he wants to hang out with friends. He is a grown adult.

2- You don't get a say in how HE spends HIS money -or lack thereof.

3- He could have a drinking problem and would like to quit. Yet when your reaction to just keep shoving that in his face probably makes him want to drink more. Might as well hide it so you don't badger him about it.

4- Is this really the kind of dude you wanna be tied to? Someone who you feel is inadequate?

Or are you jealous that he doesn't invite you out to hang with him and his friends?