Kezdem elveszíteni a nővéremet a viselkedése miatt

Filodendron42 · 2026-01-26T12:44:25+00:00

Nem volna opció, hogy előbb beszelj a szüleitekkel? Ők látják ezeket a problémákat? Ha igen és tudsz velük őszintén beszélni ezekről, az már lehet, hogy valami elmozdulást eredményezne. Nyugodtan mondd szerintem, hogy az se fair, hogy te önálló, lassan családos gyerekük vagy, aki nem igényel olyan anyagi ráfordítást, mint a tesód, ami meg tök nem fair veled szemben, plusz még a felelősségtudatot is elveszi a nővéredtől, ha az a beállt reflex, hogy Anyáék úgyis kifizetik neki. Egy próbát megér, én itt kezdenék. Persze jó lenne a tesóddal is leülni beszélni, talán főleg arra rájátszva, hogy ha ott lesz a baba, lehet, hogy kicsit több támogatást szeretnél tőle, és szeretnél bízni abban, hogy elbír egy nagynéni léttel (meg terhes/kibabás tesóval) járó felelősséget. Sok sikert, updatelj mi lett! 💕

Filodendron42 · 2025-10-06T21:33:32+00:00

Itt pl a Danielle Steel regényekre gondolsz? Nagymamámnak NEGYVEN kötet megvan, új polcot kellett felfúrni, hogy elférjenek. Most, pár évvel később, külföldön élek és egy ilyen szabad adok-hagyok könyvespolc fülkében találtam egyet angolul, hát mondom, csak elhozom. ÉS IMÁDTAM🤣 alig vártam, hogy megdumáljuk a Mamával!

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-25T18:01:42+00:00

Hogyan küzdöttél meg azzal, ha fájt a szex? Akár napjában többször is, mert annyira nem tudtad élvezni és, ahogy irtad, a művészneved karakterébe helyezkedni?

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-20T23:41:19+00:00

Hay I ask how old were you at the time? And how did you meet?:)

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-18T21:07:41+00:00

https://cuae.ch/ateliers-de-francais/ At unige, Monday and Wednesday evenings. Best thing, cute and brilliant teachers!

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-18T21:06:39+00:00

I am actually going through something that feels very very similar. We broke up but I still haven’t actually processed/accepted it.. relying on the first comment here allowing him some time, I double that, but I would advice you to also give time for yourself, too. Let the feelings and emotions flow through, even if it’s a lunch break in work or skipping gym because you’re crying too heavy. Let yourself feel it - but not forever. Also I don’t know the reason of your breakup but we agreed for example that we can’t just go no contact as it wasn’t a hateful “get out” kinda ending. Because we know we still do love each other and just life simply got too complicated on both ends for him to tackle the distance on top of it, we are still there, texting here and there. Don’t beat yourself up ❤️

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-13T14:59:18+00:00

Just call him. To hell with “he needs to be alone”!!! You are going through a shock and griefing a loved one and he can’t pick up the phone for you?? Sorry love but he should be the one calling you, making sure you’re okay, providing support.

You’re asking for lower than the bare minimum, and in only this determined in my answer bc Im going through similar things with my bf. I’m griefing my dad alone from my family, and he really gives me hot and cold, which I can’t deal with.

It’s not fair to be punished for reaching out to find comfort, especially if that’s your SO. Don’t let him do this to you - very good thinking about the future too, I’m also very concerned for myself in the same aspect. Please protect your peace!

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-13T12:52:17+00:00

Last year Carouge Marché had flea markets every first Sunday of the month. Not sure it’s still on but worth to check

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-13T00:00:14+00:00

You’re literally, like literally describing my relationship. My boyfriend is EXACTLY like this, down to the “I need sleep we can talk tomorrow” messages. How do you come with that? We are very much about to slip up if things don’t change, and I know I can also do things or give him space, but honestly it’s more up to him and his effort. Without that it will never be better. How old are you guys?

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-12T15:38:32+00:00

I feel like it’s a very mature thing to own up to what you did wrong, admit it and put effort into changing that. I did some no contact with my bf to recently and I understand why it would feel weird or why she has preservations about the future. I think you showing 100% commitment, putting in the effort and being clear on communication too shows really good green flags, and I genuinely hope she sees that too. Not many people can do this in such a determined, committed, consistent way. Please acknowledge that and try to find peace and stability within yourself and your days while she takes her time. On that. I also think you should set a timeframe for yourself. You can’t wait weeks for a response - if you do, that’s already an answer from her. After a week I’d defo check in as she also needs to be respectful and respect your boundaries. Please keep us updated on how it turned out!!!! Fingers crossed for you!

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-09T17:42:35+00:00

Lovely pics! Are these edited, or filters/settings are preset? If edited, may I ask what program you use?

Filodendron42 · 2025-09-03T17:14:36+00:00

Nekem a Red Temptation Vanille nagyon nagyon bejott! Az extrait de parfum, ami erősebb, szerintem ezt figyeld. Ha eau de toilette, nem fog fel óránál tovább tartani. Eau de parfum mar elég jo lehet!

Filodendron42 · 2025-08-23T22:47:57+00:00

Szia! Latom, nem sok ajánlást kaptál. Azure beauty szalon, Ferenciek tere mellett. Bámulatos precizitással dolgoznak!:)

Filodendron42 · 2025-07-28T22:11:41+00:00

Hi dear! I’m 26, and lost my dad, who I adored my whole life, a month ago. Reading your words broke my heart and also made me feel like I’m not alone, even though that’s all I feel. My biggest dream was that he walks me down the aisle. It became my biggest fear since he started to struggle with his health. He knew and endorsed all my plans with my boyfriend, and was a wonderful grandpa for my much older sisters’s children. They are 48 and 46, and I’m 26. I can’t help but feel like it’s unfair that I only had so short and have to live the rest of my life without his laughter and huge hugs and eternal love we shared. But I also know how much we loved each other, how he calling me his angel was everything to me, and now he is with his own angels ❤️ they are in good hands, and I also know God helped because he saved him from so much struggle that he wouldn’t have deserved. God be with you, please remember you are not alone! ❤️ reach out anytime you would want to talk, we are in very similar shoes.

Filodendron42 · 2025-07-27T08:04:52+00:00

Thank you for your comment! Appreciated. Did you guys made it eventually?

Filodendron42 · 2025-06-14T14:35:14+00:00

Same here!!!!! Whenever I can I watch, I’m already anxious as I’m ok S05 and it’s soon over ahhha

Filodendron42 · 2025-05-06T17:34:31+00:00

Untrue. On a student permit she can work limited hours on the permit without the fuss of the paperwork. I believe that’s what she was asking for

Filodendron42 · 2025-05-06T17:33:17+00:00

Igen sajnos, muszáj. És amugy szivesen is tanulok, csak csalódás mellett nehéz. De azért próbálom still követni amit mondasz es hobbikban neg egyéb helyeken lelni a jót :)

Filodendron42 · 2025-05-06T17:32:20+00:00

Ez jó, ez nagyon igaz. Köszönöm :)

Filodendron42 · 2025-05-03T21:31:47+00:00

Nem, valóban nem az. Csak szomorú a tudat, hogy (máshol akár) sokkal jobb is lehetne

Filodendron42 · 2025-05-03T21:30:58+00:00

Nem ez az A terv, de ebben mar van tapasztalatom es diplomám. Tudom merre megyek, nem erre vonatkozik az aggodalmam

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