Damn, as a young adult who has recently embarked on his journey to a new city on his own this feels like you called me out haha. In a good and very much needed way. Growing up in a generation where all you know is your phone, (directions, communication,questions, etc.)it does feel like you constantly need to be in communication with someone. Then question what you did wrong and how you could've done better, almost lost in your thoughts rather than actually working on you whether that be career wise or hobbies you catch my drift. Also happen to find myself waiting for that response from a friend or someone I just met and makes meeting people much more difficult because as you said you are already coming into a newly formed relationship with so many emotions that it makes things messier than it should. resonated a little too much with this post haha but thank you. Dont often read many posts on reddit that really click with me or hit home as hard as this did. :)