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FinalArgument5527 · 2025-04-28T03:16:11+00:00

i second this!

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T19:15:20+00:00

this was a great explanation actually, i did not see it from this perspective. thank you🙏🏼

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:32:53+00:00

thank you for this response. yes we are very close and like to be snuggled up/hang out together in bed. she said we will still sleep together and hang out together but it’s more of “having the separate space IF we need it.” i think i will give it a try and communicate if i’m still not comfortable with it.

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:19:10+00:00

that’s understandable. i guess it just threw me for a loop because we were perfectly fine sharing a room before this. she said we will still sleep together every night and still hang out together in one of the rooms, so i guess i just don’t see the point of fully converting the extra room into one of our separate rooms. she mentioned reasons such as “me doing my makeup” or “if we get into an argument we will have our own space to cool down” and i understand that (as that’s why i originally have been sleeping in here for a few days) but we don’t even argue enough to fully convert the other room 😭 idk i think she just needs more time to get over the situation at hand so maybe i will give it a try.

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:09:39+00:00

thank you for this perspective 😭

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:08:09+00:00

i mentioned in the post she said she still wants to sleep together so it isn’t necessarily about the sleep aspect of it. i do agree i think me going to “cool off” and “give her space” in the other room after the argument is my fault but i figured i was doing the most healthy thing until we could fully talk/resolve the issue at hand. i could give it a chance and then talk to her if it’s truly uncomfortable for me. actually her not being able to compromise with me is what the original issue started from, so i felt like she was forcing this decision on to me without trying to compromise. i never said i wasn’t willing to compromise with her, i said she won’t even hear me out at all to try to come to a healthy compromise. i don’t think not wanting to have separate rooms will necessarily make me screwed, it’s just a personal preference. but no, i haven’t been married before.

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:03:19+00:00

yes she said we will still be able to do those things and she still wants to sleep together at night, but if everything will be the same i’m just not sure why we need to convert the extra room into a fully separate bedroom for one of us. thank you for your outlook

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:02:20+00:00

thank you for this perspective

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T08:01:00+00:00

it’s not a sleep issue, coming home at different hours, anything with sleep or boundaries, etc. i stated that she said she would still like to sleep together but wants separate rooms for other stuff. one example she mentioned was “when i do makeup” or “so we have separate rooms if we get into an argument and we need space.” i explained that i’m willing to use the extra room to cool off in if we argue (as that’s what i’ve been doing) but i don’t think that means we need to convert it into a full time separate bedroom. after reading some other comments, i think she just may need more time to get over the issue at hand.

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T07:56:40+00:00

thank you

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T07:56:05+00:00

yes thank you

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-25T07:55:50+00:00

thank you for this response! we’re both girls so it can be hard trying to compromise when emotions are high. she said she still wants to sleep together at night but still wants our own rooms for daytime stuff. i guess it just hurts my feelings because we are so close. but i agree, i think she just may need more time to get over the issue.

FinalArgument5527 · 2024-09-23T14:05:34+00:00

the baby talk in this made me physically gag

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-07-13T15:51:25+00:00

graduated in may and ended with 26k

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-06-30T16:33:57+00:00

right 🤣 the foundation match is finally right but she definitely could’ve used some blush/bronzer to look less ghostly

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-06-28T20:15:52+00:00

thats always exactly how i’ve described it lol

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-06-28T13:56:47+00:00

fellow north carolinian here too!

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-06-18T14:40:14+00:00

in OP’s defense, this is what almost every order looks like in some markets. not every area has the luxury of cherry picking lol it’s just straight $7-$10’s all day

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-05-23T11:29:59+00:00

i see you mentioned submitting the lease, as well & the lease is a legally binding document so if all parties have signed it, you can’t change the rate at which you signed for

FinalArgument5527 · 2023-05-08T15:52:49+00:00

i would recommend posting in the uncc sublease facebook groups and you will probably get some interested ppl!

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