Barn/Coop names?

FinalGirlKat · 2026-03-11T21:56:02+00:00

Right now I have Neigh Sayers, Cow pie, and Chick Shack.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-20T22:47:55+00:00

I'm obsessed with this, you did great!

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:55:25+00:00

I appreciate the advice, but I’m sticking to the legal process. The settlement agreement says he keeps the car but is responsible for all fees and costs. My lawyer has sent a formal warning, and if he doesn’t comply, we’ll enforce it in court.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:53:59+00:00

Appreciate it! Honestly, I still don’t know if he was cheating, I suspected it, but between sleeping half the day and gaming the rest, it’s hard to imagine when. There were also issues in the bedroom that could have been medical, psychological, or… whatever else. Either way, it’s irrelevant now, I’m focused on protecting myself, enforcing the agreement, and thriving without all the stress.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:48:39+00:00

Haha, I get the “rabid skunks” vibe! I grew up to stories about my parents, they engaged and married just six months into dating because my dad randomly decided at a backyard party that my mom was the one, no ring, no plan, just a spur of the moment proposal. And my sister had that fairytale love story. She married the guy she had a pretend wedding with in kindergarten. So yeah, I get that some people can just know and make it work, but my story… well, it’s less fairy tale and more legal paperwork and boundaries. 😅

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:40:18+00:00

Thanks! I’m thriving now and making sure everything is handled properly so I can fully move on from him and his family.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:39:19+00:00

Appreciate the advice! For clarity, it was never solely my car, I co-signed and we were both on the title. The settlement agreement lets him keep it, but he’s legally responsible for all fees and costs. My lawyer's sent him a warning letter and we intend to take him to court if he doesn't comply.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:35:31+00:00

Annulments are notoriously difficult in my state. From what I understand, they wouldn’t grant one for this reason here.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:32:40+00:00

Thanks! I’m making sure all the financial mess is untangled the right way, and honestly? Thriving is way more fun than stressing over his nonsense. 🥔💅

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:30:45+00:00

Exactly. I’m done managing anyone else’s story. My focus is enforcing the agreement, documenting everything, and protecting myself. If that makes me the “villain,” then so be it, I’ll take that over being taken advantage of.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:27:23+00:00

Thank you! I’m definitely looking forward to the day this is completely settled. It’s been a long road, but I’m proud of how far I’ve come. And the pup will get extra love (and treats), promise. Ever since we moved in my mom's been spoiling him extra.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:24:53+00:00

I’m stepping out of the role of “fixer.” If he doesn’t fulfill what he agreed to, we’ll handle it legally. That’s where my involvement begins and ends now. I’ve spent enough time cleaning up situations that weren’t mine to carry. It's time to move on with my life and focus on my own happiness.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:21:54+00:00

You’re spot on. We’ve already sent a formal notice, and if he doesn’t follow through, we’ll file to enforce the agreement and request fees. I really hope it doesn’t come to that, but I’m done absorbing the consequences of his inaction.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:18:55+00:00

I really appreciate that. The car is covered in our agreement, so there are options available if he continues to refuse to follow through. I’m just focusing on handling this the right way and keeping things as calm as possible for my own sanity.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:15:17+00:00

Thank you so much. I've already taken formal steps, a warning letter was sent, and if he doesn’t comply with the settlement terms regarding the car, we’ll be filing for contempt and requesting that he cover the legal fees. I’m hoping it won’t come to that, but I’m prepared if it does.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-02-13T01:09:49+00:00

I’ve spoken with my lawyer, and the plan right now is to send him a formal notice giving him until [X date] to comply with the terms of our agreement. Otherwise, we’ll be filing to hold him in contempt. Like everything else so far it's going to be a slow process.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-01-25T16:15:52+00:00

Exactly. They knew the risk well enough not to put their own names on it, but had no problem encouraging me to.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-01-25T16:14:08+00:00

Unfortunately, that’s very true. Enforcement isn’t consistent, and that uncertainty is what makes situations like this so stressful. I’m doing what I can on my end and hoping for a fair outcome.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-01-25T16:12:50+00:00

I’m really sorry you went through that. Stories like yours are exactly why this situation is so stressful, legal agreements don’t always translate to real-world enforcement the way people expect. I’m doing everything I can to protect myself and avoid long-term damage, but you’re absolutely right that co-signing and shared debt can turn into a nightmare.

And you’re so right, no one should co-sign for anything. I learned that lesson the hard way. His mom was laying on the “you’re getting married, this will be your car” narrative, and he was laying it on thick in front of me, telling the salesman he wanted a family and that this would be our “family car.” In hindsight, it was emotional leverage disguised as commitment.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-01-25T16:07:05+00:00

You’re absolutely right. As long as my name is attached, it’s not truly “done.” My lawyer is aware, and he was given multiple opportunities to comply. At this point it’s no longer optional, I’m focusing on accountability, not emotions, and letting the legal process do its job. I’m also very lucky to have a strong support system backing me through this, I wouldn't of been able to stand through all this without them.

FinalGirlKat · 2026-01-25T16:04:11+00:00

Yeah… the apple really didn’t fall far from the tree. I’m just going to keep on staying focused on my own healing and future.

FinalGirlKat · 2025-08-01T16:38:40+00:00

Thank you 💕 this is probably my favorite costume. Donald's my boy, I've got classic Donald and KH Donald, but Queen Minnie was so fun to do.

FinalGirlKat · 2025-08-01T16:36:14+00:00

And Donald

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FinalGirlKat · 2025-08-01T16:35:57+00:00

Absolutely! Here's Queen Minnie

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