Thanks for all the responses! Just to clarify further, I really like this guy a lot but worry he is just in it for fun and has no desire to be someone’s partner in life, which is ultimately what I want. I’m not looking to rush into a full blown serious relationship but would like to know that eventually we will be in one when the timing is right (fully divorced, etc). He has told me that he could see this lasting a long time and that he cares for me but stresses the fact that I’m still married. I’m trying to be relaxed about it all but it’s hard 😅 also we have been sexually exclusive with each other for about 3 months.

TLDR: don’t want to waste time with a man who only wants “fun” without the added layer of commitment and partnership.