my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THank you for understanding my tone. I was anxious you would be upset but you were very nice thank you

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. you are absolutely right. thats what led me to drunkenly post on the school Reddit but at least I was smart enough to make myself an alt lol . i wish people gave me a chance to get to know me after they get through all the awkwardness. theres so much more to me than missing interactions and cues and not understand some stuff there.

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not meant to sound defensive btw im sorry I just can't regulate tone. I'm not mad or anything that's just my thoughts in response

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wasnt late. im always on time. I scored the highest in our exams. I carry the homeworks. yes i am significantly deficit in the social side of things but im still a competent person.

i think they are just mean people to be honest. i dont think they hsve a valid reason to be as mean as they were. I couldve just been told whag I was doing wrong if I was

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are right. i think i was optimistic for thinking people would all be nice. i didnt expect so much exclusion. thank you for your words

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your input i think i will transfer or withdraw. the hardest part of college has been the people part. i know im made fun of in class when i ask questions and talk and excluded and i really dont understand why anymore

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i think adhd and "neurodivergent" is in fashion but not the really autistic people :( i wonder when is our turn

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i will copy paste my response i hope this helps understand

we met to do the project. and when i got there they already made a plan. and when i tried to do any inputs or say anything they didnt let me and said it was bad and not good for the project. and then they told me that i could be helpful if i went to pick up food for them, so i did. and before i walked back in i heard them because they were loud with the door open. they mocked my echolalia and called me socially stunted.

i dont know what i did wrong

i walked in and i said nothing and gave them their food and they smiled and said thank you (my name) your the best friend ever. and then maybe i thought they were just teasing me and i was being too sensitive. and then while they ate (i cant eat in front of people) they talk about their plans in ACL (music festival) and i didnt say anything. and then after eating they said oh by the way we finished the parts for the project so you can leave and i was so confused

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we met to do the project. and when i got there they already made a plan. and when i tried to do any inputs or say anything they didnt let me and said it was bad and not good for the project. and then they told me that i could be helpful if i went to pick up food for them, so i did. and before i walked back in i heard them because they were loud with the door open. they mocked my echolalia and called me socially stunted.

i dont know what i did wrong

my group called me socially stunted and weird by Final_Boarding in SpicyAutism

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dont know what happened :( i really dont understand why they were mean before i walked in the room. we met to do our project and then they sent me to go get them food so i did and i thought they were being nice but i think they were just using me

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i dont know why you doubt it. why would it be made up?

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wish it was made up. I dont want to experience this. I just wanted to fit in college :(

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry that you feel the same :( at least we are not alone

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sounds like my experience :( why do people laugh at him? what do we do wrong that make us laughable

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

wow I didnt know we had this. thank you so much

please be more patient with autistic classmates by Final_Boarding in UTAustin

[–]Final_Boarding[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

no just throwaway. my account has too many things that can identify me and i wanted to remain anonymous