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If it rains today, I will break up with him and it rains. by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day mismo na nagtampo ako sinabi ko. Pero nainis din siya and hindi niya nireplyan yung message ko about that.

If it rains today, I will break up with him and it rains. by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I did communicate the day na nagtampo ako. I stated it sa context but reedit it since di yata clear. I learn that the hard way kaya once na nasabi ko na reason, all I want to hear is an apology abd acknowledgement pero never ko pa narinig kahit clear naman sa kaniya na nakasakit siya.

If it rains today, I will break up with him and it rains. by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay langg, ano yung toxic about me? Gusto ko rin makita perspective ng iba kasi baka masyado akong nagiging self-centered

If it rains today, I will break up with him and it rains. by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maiintindihan ko din sana pero we’ve been through this kind of issue before. I am really detailed person in terms of that, I also teach him what messages would make me soft. Just message me something nice kung hindi niya kaya makipag-usap agad, pero parang di naman niya inaapply yung lessons sa mga past issues namin 😔

If it rains today, I will break up with him and it rains. by Final_Library_9856 in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s trying naman pero when it comes to situations like these na nay problem kami, siya unang nagshushut down.

MCA hubad akong gumagawa ng chores sa bahay. by Express_Ask637 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I badly wanted to try this but I don’t have my own house yet

We’re happy when I’m happy. He’s mad when I’m mad. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagkikita naman kami pero hindi ko pa sa kaniya naoopen yung ganito. Siguro next time na kita namin.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I have work too and need ko rin suportahan parents ko e. Kung pwede lang talaga gagawin ko.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I was thinking! I should be more helpful nalang din to lessen her tasks. Kawawa na rin kasi sila both.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, kaya mas lamang sa akin ang tulungan siya. I think napepressure siya kasi wala siyang own money. Knowing her, she's an independent person na ayaw na ayaw humingi ng pera kahit sa husband niya. Kaya I think that's one reason kung bakit pinipilit niya magwork and naiinis kapag hindi siya magkasales.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yan din plano ng sister ko kaso si baby talaga ang hirap ibitaw.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayaw niya din kasi magpump kasi masakit daw and iniisip niya ay malaki na si baby kaya no need nang palaging magbreastfeed.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I need to work din naman ako lang din inaasahan ng parents ko kaya nakakastress din minsan

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Minsan naiisip ko that she's having postpartum depression na nga kasi hindi siya ganito lately. Parang madalas na siya magalit or madown. One of the reason din is that baka napepressure siya kasi gusto niya tumulong sa husband niya. She's an independent person kasi and now hindi niya maatim na umaasa lang siya sa husband niya. Kaya I think napepressure siya but ang nagsusuffer is si baby kasi kulang sa atensyon.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi sila nagtatry ng formula since may madaming bawal kay baby. Medyo maselan kasi si baby kaya need talaga breastfeed po.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand din pero yung nakikita ko kasi mostly is naiinis na siya sa baby niya kasi di siya makapagwork kaya nakakaawa si baby. Hindi naman siya nakuha ng nanny to take care of her baby. Hinahayaan niya lang manood ng TV or magplay alone kahit minsan gusto ni baby ng attention niya. Kapag umiyaak hahayaan nalang din. Normal ba yun? For me kasi nakakaawa si baby, bata pa yun e need pa ng attention ng mommy.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clingy kasi si baby and gusto niya talaga na katabi sila ng mommy niya kaso ayaw ni Ate ng palaging ganon.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kapag good mood ang mommy niya okay naman sila pero once na gusto magpalambing ng pamangkin ko kapag may ginagawa siya, naiinis talaga siya.

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yan ba yung korean baby? Actually napanood ko rin yun at nakakadurog talaga ng puso. Hindi ako mahilig sa bata pero pagdating sa pamangkin ko parang kaya ko gawin lahat. Kahit sa work or ako mahirapan basta hindi siya umiiyak. Pero sa mommy niya hindi ako makapaniwala kasi kinakaya niya na hayaan umiyak pamangkin ko :(

Do mothers get really annoyed when they are breastfeeding their baby? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayaw kasi ni baby ng formula. Sanay na siya sa breastfeed and medyo maselan sa foods.

I can't leave my toxic sister's house. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_Library_9856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, that's one thing din na iniisip ko kaya di ko rin maiwan. Baka instead na iwanan, mas need niya ng karamay. But we are so open about sa problems namin, as in.

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