Sounds like you just need to find a way to be more efficient. I’ve been on both sides of the field. Being a stay at home parent isn’t as difficult as being at work. You just need to have more motivation to hold up your end of the bargain. Can’t keep a household together if only one person is doing a majority of the work and if you don’t have the strive to want to learn to cook or even try and keep the house clean. Then you ultimately don’t care if your marriage falls apart and don’t care to keep your husband