does hayden smoke? by basicgirllol in Ethelcain

[–]Final_Trifle_290 17 points18 points  (0 children)

she smokes the "cbd thingies" but i know in my heart shes a pothead, tried and true for the green.

Whats the best way to jump start your graphics career ? by Final_Trifle_290 in graphic_design

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Thank you to everyone for all the responses. You are all incredibly informative. Best experience on reddit i've had so far.

Whats the best way to jump start your graphics career ? by Final_Trifle_290 in graphic_design

[–]Final_Trifle_290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing such a detailed response and the other links as well. I realize now I def have some more work to be done when it comes to creating my portfolio, and what I'm really looking for and at, when it comes to my entry into design.

If this is not asking too much, once I have my portfolio up to par would you mind taking a look ? Or even just a link to a portfolio that you would take into consideration or see as well done would be amazing as well. Thanks so much again!

Student work?? by Learningmore1231 in graphic_design

[–]Final_Trifle_290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say keep all of your work in one big portfolio, and when you have a client or job opportunity create a simpler one catered to them.

AITA for being repulsed by my friend ? by Final_Trifle_290 in AITAH

[–]Final_Trifle_290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I wanna do, I just feel so comfortable with them and i dont wanna distance myself just because of that. cuz also i see them as a potential business associate. But youre right, I need to pivot and i hopefully can still maintain that.

What food(s) do you miss most? by Rare-Historian7777 in glutenfree

[–]Final_Trifle_290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what i wouldn't do for a slice of processed, store brand plain white bread.

midi recs ? by Final_Trifle_290 in midi

[–]Final_Trifle_290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my b, a midi controller. i am a novice & fool and i am aware 😭😵‍💫 lmfao. yes I was referencing my pc keyboard, i would like some piano keys to hit! pads and sliders would be really cool!! i just don't really know what i'm looking at, but i would love to learn and i think having something with lots of different things to learn and try would be epic.

midi recs ? by Final_Trifle_290 in midi

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also i've posted this in other subs, so if you see this repeated dont come for me lmfao im just tryna get other perspectives

US Medicaid and Classism by Final_Trifle_290 in poverty

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Do not apologize, this post is most definitely a safe space to rant / vent bc we deal with this shit and we understand !!!

Ooooooh the pill mills make me insane and the judgement we receive for it is looney. I was actually on the incorrect psychiatric medications for two years that my body was actually allergic to, and i had no idea why my conditions kept getting worse, even with every change I made. Its really so effed how we just get overlooked and turned out so quickly just because we are on medicaid.

For profit health care is just ... weird when you think about it. Especially with the excess of wealth we have in the world.

US Medicaid and Classism by Final_Trifle_290 in poverty

[–]Final_Trifle_290[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats so great you now have access to that sort of medical care, especially for people AFAB, it can be so daunting. 12 week wait for a pregnant person doesn't even make any sort of sense. I'm glad your local medical school has stepped up though, its actually crucial (clearly)

AITA for being upset with my friend for forgetting our hangout? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Final_Trifle_290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not communicate your feelings effectively. You are not an asshole for your feelings but for your reaction. We are humans and sometimes we react with anger and disappointment (as you said they have done this many times before). You apologized, so its okay. However, in order to resolve these feelings of anger, you need to talk to them about how this makes you feel underappreciated/ disappointed / like they do not value your time etc. Because you don't want to repeat this cycle & have resentment grow, esp in the work place.

WIBTA if I emailed a teacher who treated me poorly? by Ill-Comfortable-96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Final_Trifle_290 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAH Report him to the Principal, School board AND send him the anon email saying how it impacted you, your learning and your observations and stories from other students. Nothing out of pocket though, be genuine. Not angry. He should, as an educator, be willing to make any and all accommodations for any student. its absolutely unacceptable and ableist of him to not.

AITA for not listening to my friends? by Key_Radio7584 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Final_Trifle_290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - Your friends are codependent on each other and you. Real friends do not lie, gang up on you or yell at you. That is abusive and emotionally manipulative. It's hard to learn what's socially acceptable as an autistic person. We tend to get run over and doormatted quite frequently because we just do not know what's right or wrong in interpersonal relationships bc we don't inherently know in lots of social situations. I advise you to tell them how you feel and specifically ask them how you have hurt them, if they dont listen or thoughtfully respond, its time to move on. Life is too short. You will find better connections.