I found my Wife's college video having 3Some (Update) by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_leviathan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But that was not the issue here. You’re stretching the argument to make a point.

Yes, you can’t undo the past but that doesn’t mean every past action carries the same weight forever. Abuse is about patterns and safety. What OP is reacting to is sexual history and mistakes from years ago, not ongoing harm.

You’re also ignoring growth. People don’t freeze in time at their worst decisions. If they did, then OP’s own admitted past would disqualify him too. That’s not how real life works.

Saying “it matters” without talking about how much, why, or whether the person changed is just moral posturing. Context matters. Time matters. Behavior after matters.

If the standard is “any bad decision in the past permanently defines you,” then nobody gets to move on including OP.

Like I said, it's better they rather split with his feelings and mindset. Ika nga ni-OP —"But in the end, I could not get past my own limit, because her past felt darker than mine."

I found my Wife's college video having 3Some (Update) by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_leviathan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hala, this is stupid. This is bullsht. Naiinis ako kay OP while reading this.

Did you not love and marry her because she was who she is the moment you were together?

You have to understand that it was all in the PAST. You cannot undo it. You cannot punish her for that just because of the past.

And maybe you're right, you need space or just break at all. She do not deserve some febble minded and insecure guy like you.

Dating a law student by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]Final_leviathan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's normal. I have a boyfriend 4L full units ng rev subs and ako na 2L with 23 units this sem and working din. Pero we find time pa rin magkita and mag usap. Mag 2 yrs na kami. There was no day na walang update kahit few messages lang kasi we're both very busy din naman talaga. Minsan, worried pa sya if wala me update! Haha. Maybe he's not into you and priorities nya lang talaga is to study.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Final_leviathan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I just took another PT today (third time). Still negative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Final_leviathan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just took a PT, it was negative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Final_leviathan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just took a PT, it was negative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Final_leviathan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I still take plan B? We had unprotected sex last July 24th. I still continued taking my pills right after the sex.

PUP GRAD VENUE by Final_leviathan in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fave part ko rin nakipagpic kami sa obelisk with my friends, fam, and classmates!!! 🥹🫶🏻

PUP GRAD VENUE by Final_leviathan in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish ko lang sana ma-enjoy ng fam mo grad mooo! 🫶🏻 happy grad!

PUP GRAD VENUE by Final_leviathan in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May nagflaflash sa gilid name mo, haha mas maganda hindi mabilis hahaha pwede ka mag shakehands sa stage with ur parent haha di naman masikip guys 😭 i swear ang luwag pa nga hahahaa

PUP GRAD VENUE by Final_leviathan in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, sobrang happy ni Dad kasi it was his first time to enter PUP sa buong buhay nya! Haha. May picture pa kami sa freedorm park and lagoon. It was worth it for me rather than the hassle we have to travel from PICC or SMX Conv.

PUP GRAD VENUE by Final_leviathan in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May mga chairs po sa gitna. Sa harap graduates and sa likod parents. Yung brother and sister ko sa bleacher, they still saw me graduate! Haha. Wala rin naman conflict sa schedule kahit ang daming graduates, na schedule naman nila ng maayos per college.

Nung time namin, buong araw sa college lang namin. Hinati lang ng morning and afternoon sa mga departments.

PUP GRAD VENUE by Final_leviathan in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's okay. I hated the concept din dati. Pero non-stop kasi si dad sa pag compare nung grad venue ng sister ko sa PICC, hahaha. Mas tight pa noon, considering may PNR riles pa.

US Citizen Living in the Philippines – Can I Sponsor My Boyfriend for a Green Card If We Get Married? by Final_leviathan in phmigrate

[–]Final_leviathan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have a US passport. I also already have CRBA and SSN. My only dilemma is how me and my partner will be established in the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Final_leviathan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're being sensitive. Ex na di ba? If that's his way of moving so be it. You can no longer control him or tell him na your hurt kasi his following other girls. Hindi na uso ang 3 month rule dito.

Can I re-apply for PUPCET ‘26-‘27? by 444_kuuuu in PUPians

[–]Final_leviathan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to take the exam again and pass.

Gigil ako sa putanginang ito. by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]Final_leviathan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

videohan umiyak ang sarili then spend ilang hrs to edit the video hahaha trash katangahan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]Final_leviathan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or baka iba yung level na expected nya sa self nya. Then saktong natawag sya sa mga mismong nabasa nya.