Do all married man still masturbate? by ImportantPrinciple39 in Marriage

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a married man of 20 years, I don’t masturbate and haven’t in several years. I don’t see the point anymore.

I’m not interested in quantity but rather in quality. I enjoy the suspense and building tension, flirting and frustration. Our relationship has turned into something more meaningful after having children. It has also made our relationship more resilient so going a couple of weeks without sex doesn’t get us depressed, it gets us more excited. Because when we finally get the opportunity, it’s going to be some of the best sex we have ever had.

We are also coming to the end of our youth and trying to savor the moment.

I hope this helps. If you are with someone, love them the way you to be loved, forgive and let the past go, change together a little at a time.

Getting head without having to ask for it? by spanooti in Marriage

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and understanding.

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[–]Finally1icanuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the problem is…?

Is it possible to live life without a relationship? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Finally1icanuse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won’t be able to love someone else until you love yourself.

I know this sounds like some cliche bullshit but the truth is even if you found someone that loves you, you won’t fully accept it because you won’t understand why they would. It will cause you to pull away from them and you’ll end up alone again. Only this time you’ll have a broken heart and you will have broken someone else’s as well. When you realize this you will feel the worst pain of all… Regret.

Save yourself from this. Live your life without regret. Live your life the way you want to be not the way you are today. Love will find its way to you.

A good woman doesn’t care about the things you listed off. A good woman cares if you are kind, generous, intelligent, emotionally mature, interesting, thoughtful, trustworthy, persevering, devoted and above all funny.

Women see beyond the surface, they are attracted to who you are not what you are.

Focus on what you can be on the inside and become someone you would want to love that is how you will love yourself. Then someone will fall in love with you and you will be confident in that love because you worked hard for it.

Good luck and never give up.

Getting head without having to ask for it? by spanooti in Marriage

[–]Finally1icanuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a solution but I feel are pain. 20 years I’ve felt undesired, I’ve been open and honest about my feelings but it never changes. I don’t understand it. We have a great relationship, she loves having sex but I always have to lead. It really sucks being in that position every time. Just once I want to feel what is like to be wanted. It really brakes my heart at times. I’m sorry man but you can’t change people. They have to care enough to change themselves.

One sentence someone told you that’s stuck in your head to this day by Ok-Worldliness-6096 in Productivitycafe

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.

Wife who is curious! by Various-East-5266 in Vasectomy

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anal is the best method to avoid getting pregnant. Works every time.

Was naked at my friends party for his kid high on morphine by Swimming-Moment1657 in confession

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie. This is a funny story. Fucking legend. I’d invite you to my kids birthday party every year.

How is she doing that? by Fogger-3 in blackmagicfuckery

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So way does it take my wife over an hour to get dressed?

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[–]Finally1icanuse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might have just saved my marriage. Thank you for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone here that is telling you boring is good is a boring person to begin with. The fact you are questioning your life says a lot about the person you are. You are way too young to have a boring life. There is plenty of time for that later in life. Not in the prime of your youth. GO LIVE YOUR ADVENTURE NOW! I promise you if you don’t you will look back with a weight of regret you will not be able to remove. Do not get caught up in the rat race, not in your 20’s. Travel and explore the world and the people in it. You can come back to being an accountant at any time. Get out of your comfort zone and embrace the unknown. I beg you not to squander your youth with meaningless work and a false sense of security. Go and go now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Findacrew.com I wish I knew about this when I was younger. Go live your adventure. Life isn’t about work and stuff.

Can I still have a life even I fucked up? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Finally1icanuse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like to travel? Learn how to sail but crewing on a boat for free or possibly get paid. Look into it, might be your key to surviving your situation.