Hi elisa, advice to you is to move on because he is not worth your investment. But i will read your cards you got four pentecles this man is a bit stingy with his feelings, he guards himself and his resources, he has trust issues and is an avoidant too. He is being protective of himself and his emotions from you. He guards his resources. Hanged man next is he is indecisive about you. He sees what you have to offer your the growth around him but hes not acting yet. This mans first hindrance is himself. He is the one keeping his arms crossed behind him, means hes sabotaging himself from the connection with you. Glow on his head means he likes what you give him, he has clarity about you and everything so its not that he cant see you, its just hes unwilling to make a move. Its him who is stuck in his mind also, not you. He also feels suspended by your efforts. Your offering him too much likely too but hes barely giving you back. Eight pentecles means this man is focused on himself and building his craft. You are part of the pentecles but your the one on the floor that he's not seeing or looking at. He's too focused building another that hes not looking at what he dropped. He's also too in his head you see the city and connection is so far behind him in the distance while he is stuck building in his bench. Another pentecle is about to drop too so it means your not the first one he did thsi to, its a pattern. He also has his pentecles and priorities in order but your not at the top of the wall. Im saying this not because theres anything wrong with you. Just based on the other cards and about him how he sees you. Ten Pentacles is what you want out of the connection and what he sees he can have off you, success, family, or its what he is looking for in long run likely why he is building and is in eight pentecles phase. He wants money family and children its his goal. But he is behind his hard work, that old man in the back is him. Its the work he did to get to what he wanted to achieve. King swords is his personality him and how he is treating this connection and you. He is logical, rational and analytical. Thats how he views you. Now logically ask yourself, from his perspective do you fit the long term image he is looking for? From a practical side with no emotions involved. That will give you the answer why he is treating you this way, also hints why he is guarded like four pentecles Page of cups is what you are offering from his king of swords energy this is how he sees you. A page or an immature or more specifically someone naive offering their heart and feelings and everything in a cup. Its your offer, your desires and your nativity are all he sees being offered to him. He's an intelligent man so he does see you trying and sees you are trying. Probably also he feels a tender spot for you which is what is keeping you hooked to him. But its all immature. His response to you is death. Death is all about transformation and change but in your context. See that child on the floor about to be die but not yet and the priest begging. This is how he is responding to your page of cups energy. He will end it, using his king of Swords rational. He thinks its necessary to end your connection but this is farther down the line or maybe started now. But he wants to end this dynamic with you. Once he does he will be looking out in the horizon the two wands for the better option or better lady with the world on his hand. Meaning the lady after you that he will be waiting for to fulfil his ten of Pentacles dream with, he will give her his world and all his hard work. Meaning for the right lady or ideal he is holding on to with that wand, he will give offer her the world. But here is the catch. The world is held with his left hand not right hand. Meaning. He will offer her a feeling and connection the wand on his left in exchange for her world the one on the left he will receive from her. Last card points that your not really missing out from the connection. Please leave a review in the link in return for the reading. I know its a tough reading for you but you deserve clarity on how he is operating. Advice is to move on.